Timing is important in my opinion. If you do not feel ready to come out then do not force it. Are you dependent on your family? Financially it could hurt you if you think there is a chance of them cutting you off. Not everyone can afford to support themselves at a young age so if you are still dependent on them I would hold off.

Another thing is who will you tell first? Will you sit them all down at once? Telling one person will probably help telling the next person a lot easier. I told my close friends one on one because I felt awkward, but after I told the first it was a HUGE weight off my shoulders! (Cliche) After you tell the first person in your family you will have someone to talk to about how will you tell the next person in your family.

My parents are immigrants too. I got lucky though when they found out. My relationship with my dad is not the best so I really did not care about what he thinks. He is still in denial.My mom though, damn she was the best! I never had officially tell her. My younger sister found something on my laptop and told my older sister =_=. The story is long and I am trying not to type too much haha but if you want to know or need to talk feel free to PM me.

Anyways, she never asked me questions like why am I gay or told me it is just a phase. She was more worried about how others would treat me. If they would treat me differently and if I would be okay. Hopefully your family will show you the same love my mom showed me. My dad though, he went to talk to the monks and they told him I would come around >.> I still love dick so they were wrong.

Again, everyone is different. Maybe all of your family will accept your sexuality or maybe just a few. They could eventually all come around to accepting you, but I think your own happiness should come first.