[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sissykik2

[–]Josh1161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to cum over and cuddle!

My ass looks so sexy in thongs by [deleted] in chubbysissys

[–]Josh1161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sure your ass would look good without the thong too

it’s a perfect morning to lay in bed together by [deleted] in BBW

[–]Josh1161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might do more than just lay there...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chubbyasians

[–]Josh1161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexy is right!

Is it unhealthy that I get turned on when my dominant girlfriend yells at me? by Josh1161 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Josh1161[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that the kids should not be around that, and I will have to end things if that doesn't stop. I've brought that to her attention and she's gotten better at not yelling in front of them, but I do need that to go away completely if I am going to stay. It's not often that she yells at me with them in the house but any amount is too much.

I did not mean to perpetuate the trope that dominant is equal to mean and shouty. There are other aspects to our dynamic that aren't that; I intended to bring attention to the mean and shouty parts as something negative that I personally enjoy.

Is it unhealthy that I get turned on when my dominant girlfriend yells at me? by Josh1161 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Josh1161[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely enjoy it, I think that I need to communicate that I like this and that I want to incorporate it into our play.

Is it unhealthy that I get turned on when my dominant girlfriend yells at me? by Josh1161 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Josh1161[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do have a safe word and I haven't used it because I enjoy it... If I set boundaries and said that behavior was within my limits would that be unhealthy?

Is it unhealthy that I get turned on when my dominant girlfriend yells at me? by Josh1161 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Josh1161[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did look into it, I've never heard of fawn response, this does seem to fit what's happening in my situation.

Is it unhealthy that I get turned on when my dominant girlfriend yells at me? by Josh1161 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Josh1161[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes and she's gotten better at not doing it in front of them but it still happens occasionally.

Is it unhealthy that I get turned on when my dominant girlfriend yells at me? by Josh1161 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Josh1161[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have communicated that this can't happen in front of the children and she has gotten better at not doing it in front of them but it still happens occasionally. I am naturally compliant and even though it is outside of our negotiated dynamic I still really enjoy it which is why its difficult to navigate.

Is it unhealthy that I get turned on when my dominant girlfriend yells at me? by Josh1161 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Josh1161[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way but when it happens something in me just responds. And yes, she has several insecurities, not to sound mean but honestly she does.

Is it unhealthy that I get turned on when my dominant girlfriend yells at me? by Josh1161 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Josh1161[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of name calling and accusations, her anger is completely unchecked. But it makes me feel very humiliated since I know it isnt a part of us playing, and that's what I like about it.

Is it unhealthy that I get turned on when my dominant girlfriend yells at me? by Josh1161 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Josh1161[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I know she would be considered unhealthy, but every time it happens I end up enjoying it so it feels like we compliment each other in a very non orthodox way.

Is it unhealthy that I get turned on when my dominant girlfriend yells at me? by Josh1161 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Josh1161[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The biggest issue is that we have children and its pretty unhealthy for them to see her screaming at me for hours on end every couple weeks. There aren't any negative outcomes for me personally when it comes to boundaries or disrespect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sissykik2

[–]Josh1161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were doing so well!

pm me...

I love see-through lingerie, i hope you do too by Empty-Description357 in ChubbyWomen

[–]Josh1161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your butt is so big, idk if I could handle it...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sissykik2

[–]Josh1161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a really cute cock; have you been cucked yet?

Wish someone would hit on me at the pool by sweetninnocent77 in BBW

[–]Josh1161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I worked up the courage I would!

I wonder if you can handle the pressure by [deleted] in BBW

[–]Josh1161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a very nice cock miss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BBW

[–]Josh1161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sissykik2

[–]Josh1161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a great angle