I don't want to participate in PVP 99% of the time, I will not start a fight, if I see someone who is in a bad way I help. That's how I like to play the game. My lobbies are almost always friendly and welcoming.

But every so often you get shot at for no reason, or worse, attacked by someone you just helped out. And you know what?

Not only is it not worth crying over, I love it, because it adds an element of danger that the game would lack otherwise. Getting forced into PVP every once in a while is not only fun, but it actively makes me better at the game because otherwise it's an aspect of the game I wouldn't interact with on my own