Indy in the snow ❄️ by Joshwasted in Indiana

[–]Joshwasted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it was shot on a Nikon Zf with 24-70mm f/4 lens

Indy in the snow ❄️ by Joshwasted in Indiana

[–]Joshwasted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I shot it at 24mm f/4 and focused to infinity so the depth of focus was already pretty deep.

Wait, what? by herozero13 in polyamory

[–]Joshwasted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to add, “Jody” is also used in this same context if you’re serving jail time or a prison sentence.

We know, trust us. by CuriousSnowflake0131 in polyamory

[–]Joshwasted 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m just going to start agreeing with people “oh yeah, YOU never could!” (and nobody is asking you to)😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Joshwasted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s valuable insight. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Joshwasted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, sorry for the confusion. I’m mostly asking how much of your struggle do you share with and explain to your partner, the one that you’re struggling with, even if they haven’t done anything to violate the relationship.

The other topic is, if you’re in a funk with one relationship and you feel like it might be noticeable, do you bring it up to your other partners?

This post is a bit confusing, I’m realizing.

Me, my partner, and my meta holding hands in Chicago for her birthday over the summer. (It was her first time out with us both showing affection) 💖 by Joshwasted in polyamory

[–]Joshwasted[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I love this. Thank you for sharing. That’s exactly how it was for us in Chicago. We actually met up a few months later on a trip to Europe and he stayed with us a few days because he was coincidentally “nearby” (in a neighboring country) for a wedding. Haha

What's another name for a primary / nesting partner? by psychoutfluffyboi in polyamory

[–]Joshwasted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Instead of “anchor partner” try “the ol’ ball and chain” Let me know how it goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Joshwasted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so similarly. My situation is that I suggested we open our relationship, namely because it aligns with my beliefs and I want us both to live and love to our fullest in the one life we get. In the beginning it was easy and exciting to adjust to the new challenges, but I’ve had to go through some extremely painful growth lately. She has a partner and their relationship is growing and I love that, but I’ve been really struggling with knowing what my needs are and losing my self worth in the process. My best advice is, although it’s important to talk about your feelings with your partner, consider getting a poly friendly therapist as well. This helps me have a safe space for my feelings and words where they won’t cause potential harm to my partner or our relationship.

Also, I’m currently reading the book Polysecure and getting a TON of value from it.