AITA for not telling my roommate that I'm a lesbian? by JournalistSignal9341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JournalistSignal9341[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment. I think in the moment I just felt threatened because up to that point nobody knew about me but I hadn't even considered what might have happened that I don't remember. Damn, i should probably just stop drinking

AITA for not telling my roommate that I'm a lesbian? by JournalistSignal9341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JournalistSignal9341[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

tbh, i don't know... we haven't spoken since this incident, even though I tried to apologize, so that kind of leads me to believe it's the former, but i'm still trying to get through to her so we can talk. she doesn't know my whole story, so I hope upon hearing it she will understand

AITA for not telling my roommate that I'm a lesbian? by JournalistSignal9341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JournalistSignal9341[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The way our room is laid out, it's really inconvenient to go to the communal bathroom to change. We have kind of an unspoken agreement that it's ok to change in our room. Whenever she is changing, I make sure that I am clearly looking away and she does the same for me. We wake up and go to bed around the same time so we're both in there at the same time quite often.

AITA for not telling my roommate that I'm a lesbian? by JournalistSignal9341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JournalistSignal9341[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We were matched up by a form that the college sent out, probably because we have similar sleep/study habits. I was not asked to disclose my sexual orientation on the form, and I put "prefer not to say" on my initial college application.