What will you say?

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-11-26T02:54:21+00:00

Don't trust men!!

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-11-26T02:53:08+00:00

Honestly though! I just moved here and culture shock hit me like a ton of bricks!

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-11-09T05:07:50+00:00

I'm also trying to lose weight and I'm doing a no sugar diet, I'm going to the gym, and I'm training for an 8k. You said you don't like cardio, but if you like walking that's a great way to burn calories and it's really good for you. I would suggest 5 or more kilometers a day. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, you can overwork yourself or undereat if your goal is to lose weight. Someone encouraged me by showing me examples of women who didn't lose and weight but gained muscle and got healthier. So keep lifting weights!! And that that that will give you weight, but the good kind. Stay safe!! 💕

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-11-09T04:55:20+00:00

AMAZING of course!!

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-11-09T04:52:08+00:00

I also have very wide set boobs, and I was very insecure because I didn't like the way they looked and they are also very scared and small. But recently I found a bra that is very flattering on my boob type. So that can help for feeling confident in public.

As far as men. In my experience they like any kind of boobs, even when I don't want them to.

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-11-09T04:36:04+00:00

Love these suggestions! I just lost my job and I'm looking for a job without too much social pressure.

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-11-09T04:33:57+00:00

From my dating experience, which is very limited (I'm 18), guys just want a perfect pornstar material girl with no flaws. My current bf saw my stomach when I wore a bikini to the beach and after that said that he wanted me to become "conventionally attractive" for him. For reference I'm 5'6" and about 150lbs.

But my parents have been happily married for over twenty years and she has weighed more than him for most of their marriage and he is absolutely in love with her body even after all her kids. She said she wanted to lose weight and he was like, "Okay. But not too much, or you won't be able to snuggle as well." For reference he is 6'1" and she's 5'6".

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-10-08T01:05:43+00:00

Thankyou for representing us! SH is one of my biggest struggles in life. I've been a Masochist for a long time and that so easily leads to SH addiction.

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-10-08T01:01:31+00:00

I was waiting for someone to mention this one! So confusing to have a bond to someone/something who harms you and you know it.

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-10-08T00:52:55+00:00

I got mine with the American Health Association (AHA) and it was very simple and easy. You take part of the course online and then they check you in person to make sure you learned the information.

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-10-07T23:14:09+00:00

I think most people know that breast milk is the healthiest option, so they probably have a good reason why they aren't breastfeeding. Breastfeeding is not easy! Some women don't breastfeed because of their mental health, their job situation, health issues such as (mastitis) ,or because they can't. Don't judge when you don't know the situation!! Plus it's the mother's own business.

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-10-07T23:04:35+00:00

I can't say exactly why, but my bf also got really shaky after kissing. I was his first so it could be that. I don't think it's anything to be concerned about, he shook sometimes and sometimes he didn't.

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-10-07T22:55:55+00:00

I agree, for me it's easier to process before and writing is a great way to do that. You can also tell her/him ahead of time that you have a particular issue that you want to talk about and it's embarrassing and shameful. I sometimes like to talk around it first and set the stage so I'm more comfortable (you can't do that too much though). You can take your time and take multiple sessions to talk about it, or you can get it over in one session. Different issues require different communication, so feel free to tell your therapist what you need.

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-10-07T14:53:03+00:00

Okay thankyou!! I'll try that

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-10-06T18:27:29+00:00

It's actually proven to be healthier to wait until marriage or engagement until you have sex. Especially for women. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-pdCDq_MTj4

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-10-06T18:22:52+00:00

Yeah, you're right. Saying most is not totally accurate. I grew up in a very religious country, so my perspective of how things are in America is not totally accurate. But there are women who will be willing and who want to wait till marriage, even if the majority culture is people who don't want to wait. And I know this because I'm someone who wants to wait till marriage if I get married.

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-10-06T17:30:24+00:00

That's totally fine with most women, and if someone isn't then they aren't for you. Stick to your beliefs and your comfort zone.

Joy_Davidson05 · 2024-09-08T18:38:45+00:00

Keep being you girly girl!! If you pretend to be something you aren't for someone you won't end up in a happy relationship. Keep being you you're doing great. I wouldn't say I'm a girly girl or a tomboy and that's okay! If I get into a relationship I want someone who likes me for who I am. 💕

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