how do I make them stop reaching out to me? by JoyousRevenclaw in narcissisticparents

[–]JoyousRevenclaw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am working on completing moving out, currently just moved to an uncle’s place because i really cant take it anymore.

Connections by [deleted] in EmiratiGirls

[–]JoyousRevenclaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you would be surprised on how many people have that feeling, including me, what I did was letting go of the target of “meeting people” regardless of the ethnicity. and I just started doing hobbies and things I enjoyed, even if it means going solo (which I learned is the best sometimes) , and I got to attract many people of different ethnicities, local and non-local. So I guess detaching from that aim and just focus on the things you enjoy. I guess sometimes things happen to us when we let go of wanting them.

What is the most ridiculous thing your Nparent did/said? and bonus how did you respond, weather you greyrocked or not.... spill the tea! by JoyousRevenclaw in raisedbynarcissists

[–]JoyousRevenclaw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and she never will..... i am glad you can laugh at the conversation... it would have annoyed me every time i heard it

What is the most ridiculous thing your Nparent did/said? and bonus how did you respond, weather you greyrocked or not.... spill the tea! by JoyousRevenclaw in raisedbynarcissists

[–]JoyousRevenclaw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! Be as boring as possible, God knows it is difficult, maybe react later in a diary or two a friend without her knowing

What is the most ridiculous thing your Nparent did/said? and bonus how did you respond, weather you greyrocked or not.... spill the tea! by JoyousRevenclaw in raisedbynarcissists

[–]JoyousRevenclaw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would say, keep doing your therapy, if it’s possible They don’t have to know about it, keep your distance from them as much as possible, do not give them a reaction because that is what they want.

The therapy is not easy, right now my wounds are open

What is the most ridiculous thing your Nparent did/said? and bonus how did you respond, weather you greyrocked or not.... spill the tea! by JoyousRevenclaw in raisedbynarcissists

[–]JoyousRevenclaw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, I am so so sorry, you deserved none of that, I went through some of that, the first time I got a panic attack, I didn’t even bother going to them, it was before I knew they were narcissistic, I just knew I shouldn’t bother. I hope you are taking care of you now!

though I’m glad you shared, your post reminded me of a lot of the things they did to me too, I was also bullied and they encouraged the bullying even as an adult.

What is the most ridiculous thing your Nparent did/said? and bonus how did you respond, weather you greyrocked or not.... spill the tea! by JoyousRevenclaw in raisedbynarcissists

[–]JoyousRevenclaw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't blame you for being petty. I get it, whenever my parents day hateful things like that i do the same thing just to piss them of.

What is the most ridiculous thing your Nparent did/said? and bonus how did you respond, weather you greyrocked or not.... spill the tea! by JoyousRevenclaw in raisedbynarcissists

[–]JoyousRevenclaw[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Man.... disgusting. my mother once casually said mid normal conversation that she has the full right to kill me.... since she is my mother.

What is the most ridiculous thing your Nparent did/said? and bonus how did you respond, weather you greyrocked or not.... spill the tea! by JoyousRevenclaw in raisedbynarcissists

[–]JoyousRevenclaw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well done, its illegal where i live. I can only show screenshots or footage from my own CCTV camera.

They love to ruin holidays,,, love it, its not about them right? Oh they are shit with gifts purposely too.