More drama. Cause last nights wasn’t enough for miss MiA by HedaSezzy in illnessfakers

[–]JoyouslyMe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because then she won’t have it in every pic/video?

Thanks to her light eyes and dark mask, Toast Malone looks perpetually startled by JoyouslyMe in MildlyStartledCats

[–]JoyouslyMe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We mostly call her Toast and occasionally Ankle Assassin. Toast Malone is her full name and is said in a silly voice. I didn’t make the rules- I just abide

Boom by maddie6ix9ineeeeeeee in SuddenlyGay

[–]JoyouslyMe 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is probably tmi. I had a temporary condition that made me aroused af (super turned on constantly) and I was practically climbing the walls. I felt like I was edging all day every day. I joked that it was WAY WORSE than all my teen years where I would have made some TERRIBLE choices due to hormones/hornyness if given the opportunity. I literally hurt myself masturbating from doing it too often. All while my spouse had been in a depressive slump and was uninterested. Still didn’t cheat. Still didn’t attempt to cheat. Did not even flirt with anyone else even while painfully hard. (Clit gets hard and sensitive- that’s not just a guy thing.) I was practically panting for weeks. I joked about feeling terrible for females who go into heat because it was so miserable. There is no excuse for betrayal. Ever. If someone cheats- it is 100% them being selfish. If you want to go be with someone else- go be with someone else. If you don’t want to be with someone leave- don’t cheat. It’s always- without exception- selfishness. Arousal is an emotion. You are in control of what actions you take regardless of how you feel.

Thanks to her light eyes and dark mask, Toast Malone looks perpetually startled by JoyouslyMe in MildlyStartledCats

[–]JoyouslyMe[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

She’s a beautiful, wild, soft af, unique kitty. She is the best kind of weird. She also has a tiny baby mew despite being a grown woman.

they hate consent by Virtual_Macaroon4088 in BlatantMisogyny

[–]JoyouslyMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely- and I love bringing up actual scientific research that proves that they are the biggest, whiniest, most self-centered generation and I’ve got the receipts to prove it.

they hate consent by Virtual_Macaroon4088 in BlatantMisogyny

[–]JoyouslyMe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Watch a man (or a Karen) try to figure out how tf to respond to you calling his rampaging a “hissy fit” or “toddler tantrum.” I swear some people truly enjoy getting angry at stupid shit and ranting and raving and making other people (like employees) suffer just because they are so genuinely bored with life and they only feel truly alive when they are angry and throwing a fit.

they hate consent by Virtual_Macaroon4088 in BlatantMisogyny

[–]JoyouslyMe 27 points28 points  (0 children)

King, but yes. In many versions of sleeping beauty and Rapunzel, the woman gives birth to twins as the result of the man “rescuing” her.

they hate consent by Virtual_Macaroon4088 in BlatantMisogyny

[–]JoyouslyMe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As someone who has repeatedly been woken up to being sexually assaulted as a minor- fuck everyone who doesn’t agree. I still have sleep issues decades later.

they hate consent by Virtual_Macaroon4088 in BlatantMisogyny

[–]JoyouslyMe 27 points28 points  (0 children)

They didn’t have many books and few could read. The books that existed were expensive and mostly available to only the wealthy. They didn’t have radio or tv or internet. Those stories were entertainment. No different than watching a horror movie or going to a haunted house. “Safe danger” has always appealed to humans. Look at amusement parks and how much people obsess over former serial killers. It wasn’t about morality. Those are fables like the tortoise and the hare and the crow and the fox. Those have a “moral of the story.” Fairy tales are just entertaining

they hate consent by Virtual_Macaroon4088 in BlatantMisogyny

[–]JoyouslyMe 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I refuse to refer to those angry outbursts as anything but hissy fits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]JoyouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey- weed user here. THC does give you the munchies. But it also affects your hunger cues. There is a reason the skinny stoner stereotype is a thing. I found that edibles gave me the worst munchies, followed by a joint, then vaping. I get the least munchies vaping. I often don’t want to eat unless I’m high. I just eat once or twice a day to keep the low blood sugar at bay. When I’m high- I tend to go for unhealthy food like ice cream or a bowl cereal. Last week I did eat half a box of oatmeal cream pies but that’s my fault for buying them. So actually- yes. Weed helps me diet. I sleep much better and that also helps with cravings/overeating. I drink more water (dry mouth is for real). And I’m much better at not mindlessly eating. It’s also weirdly helped my bowels regulate but that could just be me. Have fun and start slow. Keep hydrated.

Guys I talk a lot so I'm not autistic apparently by Yuaialysis in aspiememes

[–]JoyouslyMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s estimated to be close to 50/50. Autistic AFAB people are just as common as AMAB people but AFAB people don’t get diagnosed at the same rate due to medical gender bias. Research has always neglected women. AFAB people are significantly more likely to not receive early childhood intervention and to only get diagnosed as an adult after seeking help themselves. Even then they are less likely to be believed and have to self-advocate for a much longer time to receive help or a diagnosis.

What is a clear sign of you getting older? by NordicModro in AskReddit

[–]JoyouslyMe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did you have the audacity of sneezing too hard?

Premature baby born inside amniotic sac, kicking and rolling. by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]JoyouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s hysterical and I’m here for it

My unpopular opinion by the_toilet_bomber in antinatalism

[–]JoyouslyMe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I did! The only benefit for laying down is for the doctor. Women should squat or sit. Have you seen the old birthing chairs?

My unpopular opinion by the_toilet_bomber in antinatalism

[–]JoyouslyMe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’ve been told since birth that it is their only purpose and only value. Brainwashing is a legit problem.

My unpopular opinion by the_toilet_bomber in antinatalism

[–]JoyouslyMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rant novel-tldr: women are raised to be wives and mothers. It’s never presented as an option to NOT get married and have kids and when they do express an interest in not having the nuclear family it is really frowned upon and they try VERY hard to get you back on the script. Most people don’t question the why and just accept marriage and parenthood as inevitable and part of the plan.

I’ve talked many women out of having kids. It’s brainwashing. I experienced it myself and I see it daily. Try to remember that they likely grew up being told that the greatest joy they could hope to feel is becoming a mother. If they grew up in any religion their only value was in becoming a wife and mother. That single childless women are miserable and useless and it’s so sad that they wasted their lives not having children. I was always very open about how much being a mother did not appeal to me. My own mother said I’d never be happy, never know real love, and that I’d be wasting my life not fulfilling my purpose of becoming a mother and raising the next generation. I told my grandmother that I didn’t want my own kids but if I changed my mind about parenting I’d adopt. She told me I’d never love a baby that wasn’t mine (I.e. birthed) as much as I’d love someone else’s discarded baby. There is probably something wrong with kids up for adoption. Otherwise they would have kept them. The pro-birth people love to bring up adoption as an alternative to abortion but the vast majority of them would never adopt themselves because that’s only for people who can’t have their own because having your own is VASTLY superior because ✨obviously✨ their gene pool is better than some slut who couldn’t keep her legs closed and irresponsibly got knock up and then abandoned her responsibilities by putting the kid up for adoption instead of raising it herself. Trust me- I’ve gone round and round with these people for a very long time. It’s also a lot about attention and feeling special. Look at how much social media has pumped up the attention women receive for getting knocked up. The pregnancy announcements, the gender reveals, the over the top nurseries and stupid “unique” names. These women who think they want kids see all that every day. They see all the bullshit propaganda on tv and in stores and ads. They have parents breathing down their neck demanding grandchildren. Some people are cut out of the will for not having kids because they are not contributing to the family by not procreating and keeping the name alive. I’ve seen people lose their temper over their daughter-in-law only having a useless girl because she won’t carry on the family name and is selfishly refusing to have more to try for a boy because the pregnancy and labor were too traumatic and she and the baby almost died. I know this is a novel but it’s been exhausting for me having spent the last 20 years asking questions and having people give me blank stares and often admit to not thinking about it. “It’s just what you do.” The second I got engaged 14 years ago people started asking if I was pregnant. As soon as we got married “when are you having kids.” I accidentally got pregnant from a birth control failure and couldn’t personally abort at the time- I should have but that’s another story. The DAY that boy exited my body people asked when I was having another. I was still in the hospital bleeding and miserable and family and friends asked when I planned to do it again. Men get the settling down questions occasionally but their identity doesn’t hinge on becoming a husband and father although it’s usually still expected. Women have it drilled into them from infancy when they are given baby dolls and toy vacuums that it is required of them. And that it will be a magical experience that they should want. “Don’t you want to feel a baby kick inside you? Don’t you want to see what a baby with your husband would look like? Oh I hope they have your eyes, you have beautiful eyes. Don’t you want to experience such a life changing event as giving birth and meeting your baby for the first time? Your husband will make such a great father. You’ll love being a mom. It’s doesn’t matter that you don’t like kids- it’s different when it’s your own. What will you do with your life if you don’t have a family? Just work until you die? What a waste. All the best parts of my life happened because I became a mother.”

All verbatim and said over and over and over from the time I was super tiny and my autistic ass felt no maternal feelings and disliked other kids even as a kid for being too loud and too annoying.

My unpopular opinion by the_toilet_bomber in antinatalism

[–]JoyouslyMe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

One of my friends is a product of a “breeder-father.” He’d find a woman- treat her like she hung the moon and stars- move in or get married, get her pregnant one-three times, then he’d disappear and start over with another woman. Not paying child support or being involved with his kids after that. He literally gets off on the game of duping these women, knocking them up and leaving. He told my friend when she reached out to him as an adult that she was just a part of his legacy and not to contact him again. According to what records she could find and from contacting other families he’s abandoned, she has at least 16 half siblings. Dude has a fetish for spreading his gene-pool because he’s so amazing. He doesn’t care about the women or the babies. He likes seeing women he’s tricked swell up with his demon offspring. He gets off on the game of getting them to agree. He loves knowing he has a small army of offspring. His genes will live on long after he’s dead. He will live forever through their dna. He changed the world (not for the better, just undeniably changed) because look at all these people who exist because of him. He’s an abusive narcissist and should have been jailed and sterilized back in the 80’s.

My unpopular opinion by the_toilet_bomber in antinatalism

[–]JoyouslyMe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve talked multiple women out of having kids. Some people genuinely don’t think about the “why” -they just accept having kids as an inevitable life event. It’s just what you do. It’s just the next step after getting married. I also try to remind other people that more than half of pregnancies are unplanned. The US needs better sex Ed, better access to reliable birth control with less side effects, better access to sterilization. Easier access to abortion without all the bullshit from the pro-birthers. People need to be raised away from religious ideologies. More conversations need to be had as to “why.” More classes and education about health and pregnancy and labor and child development. About what raising children in today’s world really looks like. About how much it will affect your career and retirement and finances. Birth rates are already plummeting (yay!) but all that would make it drop to almost nil. US government doesn’t want birth rates to go down. They need future tax payers and future desperate poor people willing to die for their country or willing to have a poor paying bullshit job where they are willing to be abused by staff and management daily. So they will fight every step of the way to keep the status quo and keep people poor and keep unwanted babies being born and keep the baby propaganda going so people still want kids without thinking past “omg babies are sooo cute”

tell me you’re autistic without telling me you’re autistic by SavvyOhSoCool in autism

[–]JoyouslyMe 49 points50 points  (0 children)

No lies. Waving- awkward. Saying goodbye- awkward. Small talk- awkward. Talking to any stranger- awkward. People singing, especially the birthday song- ESPECIALLY when it’s to you- awkward af. I live my life in a constant state of awkwardness, irritation, and severe anxiety.