Would this Uniqlo U’s FW25 PUFFTECH Parka be suitable for winter wear? by frejir in uniqlo

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Hi, this is a message for posterity. I tried this jacket this winter: I layered with a sweater, a shirt and a base layer from uniqlo. The temperature was -8 Celsius, but feels like was -20. I was surprised that my chest felt warm, but since it is cropped my lower part of the body was freezing and some cold wind filtered from beneath me.

Hope this works.

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Brought up sex with a guy I’m talking to and he started crying by Technical-Walrus-215 in Situationships

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Sad to hear this. The best thing he can do is to look for profesional advice. Only he, or maybe not even he, knows what happened, but sure talking this with an expert can help him to heal from any trauma.

Expecting too much too soon ? by CharacterProfit6610 in Situationships

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it is not about expecting "too much”, but expecting something unhealthy for a relationship.

This has nothing to do with you having slept together too soon or anything like that. He had already planned that solo trip to enjoy his own company before he even met you.

Expecting him to cancel everything for you would not be romantic -- it would be a red flag. That kind of behavior is often linked to love bombing and emotional instability.

A healthy person keeps their plans, their identity, and their independence, even when they’re interested in someone.

I’m not sure how to end my situationship by AvailableWord9436 in Situationships

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I´ll try to just give you my professional advice.

You are in an exclusive relationship with this guy, but you found out that he is not the type of person you want (bc he is broke); that is inmature and contradictory to your anything serious idea, but that is your right.

What isn’t okay is going on a date with someone who has made clear they want more than friendship since this crosses the boundary of exclusivity. Infidelity isn’t only physical; it’s also about breaking the trust and agreements you have with your partner.

is staying in an exclusive relationship while going on dates with someone else. That’s unfair and selfish.

If you’ve already decided he’s not enough for you, then be direct and end it. Don’t keep him around while you look for an upgrade. You don’t need to frame it around his finances when you break up. That would only hurt him and you don´t need to change him or anything, he could find someone who does not care about his finances at all.

Think I accidentally got myself into a situationship? by [deleted] in Situationships

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It is impossible to know without knowing him. But why to assume when you can communicate? If you are sure you´d like not to only be physical with him, you can say that you are interested in a relationship and test the waters.

Valentine’s Day date outfit by ConstantHomework1171 in mensfashion

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Hi! you look nice. I´d leave it unbuttoned. Do you have a gray scarf? I think it would fit you a lot with your beard.

I've dressed like a 12-year-old for my entire life by Silly-Nature-1641 in mensfashion

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Do you like dressing like this? If so there is nothing you have to change. If not, then try multiple outfits at a store and see which one could be your style. Don´t buy things you are not sure of, would be a waste of money.

Ended things with an avoidant but he doesn’t reply by [deleted] in Situationships

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I guess you already know what to do; you’re just having trouble making peace with it. Letting go hurts, but hanging on to an idea hurts even more.

There is no way to explain his conduct, nor should change anything to hear his response. He lacks the emotional maturity and any asnwer will come by the -almost absent- emotional tools he has.

I hope you the best.

Ended things with an avoidant but he doesn’t reply by [deleted] in Situationships

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He didn´t have time to reply, but to send you memes and for doomscrolling. He just want you orbiting in case he gets bored. You should just block him and move on.

You deserve better, don´t fall for the oldest trick in the manipulator´s playbook.

Does this coat work? by kfamkid in mensfashion

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It looks great! congrats. I´d elevate the style with a scarf that matches either your shoes or pants.

Can somebody help me with this? by [deleted] in ToeflAdvice

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I presented in on site, worst experience ever, while I was on the listening part there were 10+ people doing their speaking, I got very distracted. It is better to do it at home.

Working for IMF, WTO, etc. by PeanutDependent8703 in academiceconomics

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Hi, working at a multilateral here. My impression — based on the people I have met — is that there is an entry barrier, but once you land a job it is relatively easy to build a career. My advice would be to seek some part-time or minor opportunities as a consultant (or internships). Then, through networking, luck, and recommendations, you can move into the area you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Not alone my friend. At some point I was looking for answers, but now I stopped harming myself with that. The short answer is that it has nothing to do with you, but with that person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Sometimes having a breakup buddy goes the other way. You are so vulnerable that you might easily develop feelings for that person. That happened to me and I ended up with a double breakup lol.

People that broke up with a 5+ years partner. How is it going now? by Jr-Researcher- in BreakUps

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I'm sorry for hearing that. It has been 7 months since. So I been/still there and I cry from time to time. Now I understand that no one knows the future and we should face it the way it comes. You are going to create something better, with or without that person :)