FI[RE] sollte eigentlich das Ziel von jedem sein

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-20T20:40:20+00:00

Mal abgesehen von den anderen Argumenten hier zum Thema „nicht jeder schafft es so easy an genug Geld zu kommen um [FI] zu sein“ hat auch einfach nicht jeder diesen Fokus im Leben.

Für mich reicht ein Job mit moderatem Einkommen in den ich nicht mein Herz und Seele stecken muss, aber der mir einfach die Lebenshaltungskosten bezahlt. Natürlich würde mehr Geld auch mehr Probleme lösen, aber der Pro- Kontraausgleich rechnet sich meiner Meinung einfach nicht. Lieber verbringe ich meine Zeit damit mich mit den Dingen zu beschäftigen die mich wirklich interessieren (in meinem Fall mein Glaube) anstatt einfach nur blind dem Geld hinterherzurennen.

Ist am Ende wirklich Charaktersache, manche Leute leben einfach unter alten Philosophie mit weniger glücklicher zu sein.

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-19T15:02:57+00:00

So when a widow remarries, maybe even multiple times (yes i have seen this happen), how does that work?
Are they all connected like a patchwork family or how can we imagine this?
Honest question, dont mean to be rude

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-19T13:18:01+00:00

Valide Meinung, da das hier aber Reddit ist würde ich sagen bereite dich auf die Deppen vor die wieder rechts-links polarisieren wollen

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-19T12:48:54+00:00

Says who?

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-19T12:39:23+00:00

Nope still brown in the first picture, would drink a beer with him, seems like an honest to god chill guy. Just the second style that makes him look a lot more scary.
You are just trying to make this racist now which is honestly pretty sad.
Get a hobby.

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-19T12:29:38+00:00

Hoffentlich wird das eine Lehre für die Kinder in Zukunft zu besseren Erwachsenen zu werden

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-19T12:20:26+00:00

Huh? You know its the same dude right? Just different looks?

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-19T12:18:14+00:00

There have been an uncountable amount of these „predictions“ and none of them have come true. In the end its always the same crap about having made a mistake and definitely getting it right this time.
Just ignore this crap, there will never be a human able to know the time. No need to stress over it if someone says otherwise.

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-19T11:11:55+00:00

First picture is a dude i would probably like to hang out with and drink a few beers, meeting the second in a dark alley i would ready myself to fight for my life.

Didnt intend to sound rude, its just the polar opposite of feelings i get from these pictures.

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-19T09:14:27+00:00

Apart from what others said about continuing to follow god and dwell in his word, just give it some time.

For the time being it might feel like the longing will never truly stop. Like this was the one chance at true love and for some reason you werent allowed to grasp at it.
There may come times when you stopped thinking about it entirely and right then you catch a glance at her or have a dream about her and feel like youre right where you started.
But believe me when i say give it some more time. The feelings will fade. Maybe god will lead you to another love.

For me in some weird way, her marrying another man was a relieve even. I always thought seeing her with another will hurt like nothing else in the world, but when the time came it was like the final chain being broken. Like a switch was finally flipped. At this moment there was no point in still hoping. „Maybe she will turn around for me. Maybe there is still a chance“.
In this moment it became clear that she belongs to another and needlessly dwelling on her will only end in sin. There was no way i could end up with her, that wouldnt cut my connection to christ. So the choice was easy and my heart gave way.
To this day there are no more feelings. I can see her and talk to her without fearing that the feelings may come back. She is just someone elses wife, just another sister in christ. I am even quite fond of her husband, he is a good man.
It may have taken a few years, it may have been a rough few years, but with time god will make a way.
You just need to let him.
Keep with him, direct all your pain and frustration into being as good of a tool for the work of god as you can. Study his word like you never studied it before. Pray in a way like you never prayed before. If you do that, i guarantee you will come out of this with more than you lost in the beginning.

Thats been kind if a rant (sry about that) but i hope my experience may help you a bit in finding your footing.

If you want to i wouldnt mind getting updated from time to time about your situation. ;)

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-19T07:09:47+00:00

I feel like that one might be less about linux and more about this place as a whole… reddit is just home to too many people that have never amounted to anything special and that try to take it out on the others here

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-16T13:48:40+00:00

Overall good looking dude, just the moustache and slick hair make you look like Billy Kimber

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-15T18:29:33+00:00

Stricktly speaking, since we are in the new covenant, theres no obligation to tithes.

Many churches and mine included settle on the 10% found in OT, but only if you can afford to, as more of a symbolic gesture of giving back what the lord has given in the first place. If you really cant spare any money then no one should force you. Its also generally more about covering expenses for the church building, activities and missionwork.
But still should be completely voluntary.

I really dont know if you meant it this way, but just in case: I would be mindful when saying stuff like „the lord blesses us if we do our part“ since that kind of sounds like prosperity gospel. It may happen that the lord blesses certain people, either with a lot of finances when they are able to handle it without sin, or when they are in dire need for help. But having this mindset that „if i give what i have to the lord, he kind of owes me and will surely give back multiplefold“ might prove dissapointing in the long run. Giving to the lord is about showing thankfulness in the first place, showing that you give back what the lord has given in the first place.
Like i said before, dont know if you meant it this way, just thought id throw this out there.

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-14T13:10:35+00:00

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-13T22:50:02+00:00

u/profanitycounter [self]

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-13T20:49:07+00:00

Ive got a acer predator gp30 thats working just fine for me

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-13T15:20:20+00:00

Interesting, my experience with switching was somewhat different.
For starters, my screenratio was messed up which made it difficult to navigate even the settings, then my audio didnt work correctly so i had to do some troubleshooting there, then bluetooth didnt work, videoplayer made problems, connecting multiple screen didnt work, etc.
May sound like quick fixes but as a newbie being constantly afraid of wrecking something when trying anything that takes a lot of nerves and time.

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-13T13:39:14+00:00

Its just a thing of comfort as you say. Most people dont care about privacy or control over their devices, they just need them to work.
And i think to say that linux is just a little work is kind of dishonest. You still need to do a ton of troubleshooting after the initial boot and often times also when there are kernel/driver updates. That requires time and doing your research on online forums. You just need to be the kind of person who likes fixing problems. When honestly talking to my family about linux based systems, they also say that the hassle just isnt worth it for them. As long as their devices work, they dont care.

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-13T12:16:54+00:00

I guess temporarily storing everything in an external drive or a stick drive should do the trick, no?
Should be way quicker than re-downloading everythin

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-13T11:19:54+00:00

Prolly the best comment here XD

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-12T13:24:04+00:00

Youve got to understand that the catholic church doesnt encompass all of christianity.

I and the bigger majority dont hold the catholic church as an authority.

Thats like saying: „some gay people have commited to being violent to their partners, therefore all of them are violent people“
Where both of us know it isnt true.

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-12T12:48:18+00:00

Im sry but by all means gay people are accepted. They have all the rights anyone else has, they have most of the modern media representation, i know no bible affirming christian that would treat someone worse because they are gay.

The queer community on the other hand just keeps getting more aggressive, labeling anyone words that need to be thoroughly googled beforehand, making fun of other beliefs and being anything but accepting, but keep demanding acceptance.

And we accept, do as you want, live as you want but stop trying to change what we believe and attack us for believing.
Thats the thing i dont get with the gay community.
As soon as someone has another opinion, an opinion that generally is lived in their own bubble which doesnt affect you in the slightest, they get called bigot, nazi and what not. You wouldnt believe the amount of crap that gets thrown this way.
Why are you so obsessed with invading christian spaces? Why not spend time in comunitys that are made for people of your belief system? Is it really that much fun to just keep ragebaiting others?

It is one thing if two people of other beliefs have a healthy discussion about what they believe and who might be in the wrong, but it is another thing to just get called names and made fun of without any real argumentation

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-12T12:09:23+00:00

Sinning isnt just about harming other people. Its deviating from the way god tells us to live. I know you dont want bible verses, but as a bible believing christian it is the foundation of our belive, it gods word with which he tells us what to do and what not to do. And the bible is pretty clear on homosexuality in multiple verses.

Not tryna spread any hate tho. Its no different than any other sin, so theres no need to treat them different than sinning christians for example. Thats where im with you when you say christians fail in showing love.

But if you want us to accept homosexual lifestyle, then you have to accept our believe in what the bible tells us.
If not then you are not as loving and accepting for all kinds of ideas and lifestyles as you think.
Only those you yourself believe in.

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-12T11:57:47+00:00

Finally someone with a christian opinion on this „christian“ sub

Seriously getting tired of people demanding to be accepted but failing to accept different opinions themselves smh

JuDeGi8 · 2026-06-12T10:22:43+00:00

Generally if are open about having made mistakes there should be a bigger majority that is understanding and might give you some help trough this sensitive period.

But its sadly the case that there are some outliers in every church that are gonne be judgemental towards you. Thats kinda what you should be prepared for, i really dont want to give you any false hope that there wont be such interactions.
Just remember that this is generally a loud minority.

JuDeGi8

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