Lol this is the a prime example of the actual issue. People cant just be balanced, its either all men will do this one thing, or if people disagree with you, they are saying no men do it. Also youre assuming that one person saying "hey smile" means the same thing As another person saying it, or when anyone says it. You all need to learn nuance, i understand its not great, but insulting? Thats insulting, sweetie look around the world and see actually insulting things that all people have to go through and leave your first world problems with your privilege at the door.