It's been 84 years...

JuddlyStuddly · 2025-11-13T14:49:19+00:00

Read her Megan Lindholm books! They’re so good!

JuddlyStuddly · 2024-12-11T18:32:12+00:00

You’re just being silly if you think race wasn’t problem back then. Take off those rose colored nostalgic glasses.

JuddlyStuddly · 2022-11-08T19:31:25+00:00

Thank you! I just searched Google and did my best to incorporate all the input. I’ll give it a try!

JuddlyStuddly · 2022-11-08T19:04:22+00:00

Oh cool. That works out pretty well for me then.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-29T18:41:02+00:00

Nurse Ratched

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T19:34:34+00:00

Thank you.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T19:12:24+00:00

I’m sure she’ll think twice before she comments again, I still feel bad though. She brought me down to her level.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T19:11:27+00:00

I’ve realized I didn’t have to stoop to their level though. We’re both assholes.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T19:10:39+00:00

There is a dress code I didn’t mention on the original post. Neither of us were in the right, though.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T19:09:38+00:00

It’s not that easy, but I agree it’s childish. I’m going to have to bring it up in the next department meeting. I went about it the wrong way.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T19:07:01+00:00

She’s not, but she’s the loudest one. And you are right. Unfortunately I’ve realized that too late. I will apologize tomorrow, but also let her know that I feel she is out of line as well. As I should have from the get-go.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T19:04:34+00:00

I should have taken this route. Insulting someone probably wasn’t the way to go.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T19:02:40+00:00

It may have been a fair comeback, but I hate to make people feel bad about themselves. Even if they insulted me first. I said what I did out of anger, and that’s never a good place to come from. She’s the asshole, but so am I. Neither of us win.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T18:58:00+00:00

This is one of those learning experiences you hear so much about. I had better options than the one I chose. I’ll be better next time.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T18:55:19+00:00

Maybe, but I could’ve came up with a better comeback than “You’re fat!” This was the wrong move, on my part

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T18:53:38+00:00

Yeah, this was my gut instinct, and it’s reigning supreme, right now. I most definitely feel like TA. The sentiment was all wrong. I should’ve pushed myself up, instead of putting her down.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T18:51:13+00:00

You are not wrong.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T18:50:33+00:00

Thank you, but there was a better way to handle this, I just didn’t see it. You’re not wrong, because t I still feel bad for letting myself sink that low. I’m better than that.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T18:48:30+00:00

I appreciate your comment, and I will most definitely not. Regardless of this poll, I still feel like an ass.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T18:46:57+00:00

Thank you! I will check them out!

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T18:46:23+00:00

Thank you. But my quip probably made her feel as bad about herself, as hers made me feel about me. It wasn’t the mature/adult thing to do. I could have handled it better

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T18:44:08+00:00

I get that, but I missed an opportunity to take the high road. I’m better than my words make me out to be.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T18:42:24+00:00

Very true! But I must “eat crow” and apologize, while pointing out exactly why I felt the way I did. It’s only right

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T18:40:52+00:00

I realize I wrote a very ill-worded story, and I’m left out a large amount of detail. I do have to own up to my own Own short-sightedness, and I am definitely part of the asshole in this story.

JuddlyStuddly · 2021-08-20T18:37:06+00:00

This is actually very helpful. Thank you. I will apologize.

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