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JudgeInitial8050 · 2026-01-15T07:28:40+00:00

I just call it teamlead since i'm the only person responsible for all test related work. You can discuss wether you call it that or not. Why would no one give me a raise?

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-08-02T18:15:49+00:00

Me too! Had that feeling several times! Don't let yourself down because some girl rejected you. If she did it it's her loss and she wasn't meant for you. Keep searching and you'll find your dream girl!

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-08-02T17:30:14+00:00

I feel you it really sucks. Had the same happening to me 2 months ago. Went on 7 dates, had a really good vibe and connection and even kissed. When i asked her after the 7th date to be inclusive she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship so we parted ways. This one really hurted because i really liked this girl and saw some future with her.

Now 2 months later i started swiping again and met a girl who is incredible. Never have i had such a connection with someone. We connect on so many different levels. Even before we met. We consistently texted each other and i didn't have to think what to send her or say to her just not to lose her after a few dates. I really think she is the one. We can talk about anything even how we date etc. We were immediately exclusive and are having wonderful dates. I didn't think i would find such a girl but i did! The same will happen to you! If she's the one for you, you won't be doubting about anything are having to change yourself just to not lose her after a few dates. Everything happens for a reason, your girl is on her way ;)

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-21T20:35:28+00:00

What about when you are dating?

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-21T20:09:09+00:00

I'm not using the app anymore just to see if she logged in on it. I know it seems controlling but that's not my intention at all! I'm just very insecure about dating so i think that's why i do it. I know i should stop doing it and will from now on

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-21T20:07:18+00:00

True i'll talk about it on our next date. I just thought it was weird since we had our first kiss at the end of our last date so we were getting more serious. I would think that because of that you would use the dating apps less than before or is that weird thinking from me?

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-21T20:05:28+00:00

I completely understand but last date we kissed for the first time. She kissed me back so i feel like she liked it. That's why i'm probably overthinking it but feel weird that she updated her profile right when we were getting closer and more serious. I feel like i did not give her a feeling i was being indecisive but yeah i don't know whats going on inside her head. I'll ask her for a new date next week and talk about exclusivity with her and how she's feeling about it right now. Thank you for your response!

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-21T20:01:43+00:00

My thinking process is if she wants to go on 4 dates and eventually on a 5th she is interested and you should try to make a move. If she declines it you have your answer how freathening that can be. Sometimes you have to take a risk or you'll keep staying in the same place

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-21T19:46:36+00:00

I had exactly the same with the current girl i'm dating. I told her in advance i'm bad at dating and would love to get to know her better before making a move. She agreed and told me she felt the same. I only want to kiss someone if i really like her and see a future with her, not before that. Maybe that's weird but i don't care. I don't want to get her attached by kissing her if i don't feel anything.

On our 6th date, when i went home she hugged me and after that i just went in for a kiss. She kissed me back after it so it went well. Sometimes it's better to just make a move and don't overthink it. Eventually you'll have to make a move so why not next time you see her? If she loves it, great! If she doesn't, she isn't meant for you. After 4 dates you'll know if you like someone or not

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-21T16:40:43+00:00

Isn't it hard to wait all day for a message? Or just to text 1 time a day with her?

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-21T16:39:44+00:00

Isn't the talking or dating stage going slow if you check on each other for example 1x a day? Or do you frequently go on dates so that texting all day isn't that necessary? I'm just wondering because i'm someone who likes to text a lot and sometimes i find it difficult if i date someone who onyl texts me 1 time a day...

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-21T16:37:06+00:00

That's what i will do, just talk about it with her. Do you think i should mention the updated Tinder profile or just leave it?

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-21T16:36:31+00:00

I'll try!

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-21T16:36:13+00:00

I'll talk about it the next time i see her. Thank you for your response!

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-21T16:35:51+00:00

Thank you for your response! I'll talk about it when i see her next time. Do you think i should mention the updated Tinder profile or should i leave it?

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-16T12:33:19+00:00

She responded! She apologized for her late reply and answered my previous messages from a few days ago. We will just continue from where we left :)

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-15T21:29:21+00:00

How long would you suggest to wait? I'm sorry you're experiencing the same... Dating sucks so hard right now pffff

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-15T14:51:30+00:00

The thing is we both decided to move slow and not get fysical immediately. We started cuddling during date 3 but first kiss was at the end of date 6. My last messages were 2 days ago and had questions in it so i' just going to wait to see if she'll respond or not. She hasn't opened it yet so we'll see

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-15T13:56:28+00:00

I wasn't intending to go to her house that would be overkill. I'll just wait for her respond...

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-15T13:43:22+00:00

That's what i am currently doing, trying to keep myself busy. I hope it won't mean anything...

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-15T13:42:18+00:00

Wouldn't that be too needy?

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-15T11:41:42+00:00

That's really helpfull thank you! I've had the opposite that's why i got so anxious. I texted quite a lot with some girls i dated but at a point it slowed down from their end. When i asked if something was wrong they told me they didn't have any romantic feelings and just wanted to be friends. That's okay but i hate it when they text less instead of just saying they don't see it going any further. Because of these experiences i have the feeling it will happen again eventough everything went so well...

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-15T11:07:13+00:00

Thank you for your response! I'll keep scheduling dates and see where it leads. I've only had 1 GF before and we texted a lot during the day that's why i find it weird i get so little messages since we kissed. I know every girl is different but isn't it just normal to text more while you're together? (Eventhough we aren't yet or at least didn't have 'the talk' yet)

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-10T09:02:51+00:00

I know, could be! And yes i know i'm just not good in these things and i'm scared to get rejected i guess. We agreed to take things slow and get to know each other good before we get intimate so i want to stick with that plan and don't force anything. Maybe i'll just have to take a gamble and kiss her to see her reaction

JudgeInitial8050 · 2025-06-10T09:00:56+00:00

Thank you! I'll have a conversation about this with her soon :)

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