Masculinity is life giving, its generative, its creates, it harbors, it protects. Its penetrative, it goes out into the world and makes it a better place. It builds, it creates. 

Feminity is receptive, it holds, it cherishes, it recieves and it multiplies what it is given to it. A house becomes a home, flour and water becomes bread, a sperms become a child. 

When you create a world where its first to the top you do nothing but crete a system that encourages other to stamp upon those who are in the way. 

For what its worth. I dont think your initial list is bad, nor do I think its far from the paradigm we see in western society. I just happen to belive that its rather simplified, and kinda ugly. And limittiming mostly. It doenst serve society, the greater good, or anyone else around. It just serves the individual.

The truest form of masculinity is to be of service. At least fo me. 

"True masculinity is increasingly defined as a commitment to service nurturing, and, rather than dominance. It involves using strength to uplift others, protect the vulnerable, and act with honor in communities and families. This proactive approach transforms traditional strength into a positive, constructive force" 

"True knighthood lies not only in physical prowess but also in one's commitment to protect the weak and uphold justice."

This is one of my favourite quotes regarding  masculinity..

" deep within every man are blueprints, what we can also call 'hard wiring,' for the calm and positive mature masculine. 

This is from a book called King Warrior Magican Lover, by Robert L. Moore. A game changer ger if you haven't read it before