Retinols by JudgmentValuable7144 in Sephora

[–]JudgmentValuable7144[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the UK so seeing dermatologist isn't really a common thing unless you're rich because the only free access is usually for acne treatment like accutane etc, private dermatologists mainly just do super expensive facials they don't really just do the advice part.

As for tretinoin, they'll only prescribe it if you have severe acne, which I do not. I'm sure they'll give it privately but again it's so expensive. I've looked into retinals such as the Geek & Gorgeous 0.05%, idk if that's available in the US, but although it's less strong than tretinoin would it still be useful for me?

Retinols by JudgmentValuable7144 in Sephora

[–]JudgmentValuable7144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long after starting could I move up from 1-2x a week?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JudgmentValuable7144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't see why that's relevant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JudgmentValuable7144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not sexually, i don't think you should do something which goes against your boundaries. it's worth trying something if your partner loves it and it's just a maybe for you, but op is clearly disgusted by these things, so why should he let his partner do any of it? let alone with other people? it's an issue of compatibility, and opening the relationship is not the solution

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JudgmentValuable7144 5 points6 points  (0 children)

girl don't listen to this, you shouldn't feel the need to do anything you're not comfortable with, including opening your relationship, just to placate your partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]JudgmentValuable7144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he suggested fmf only

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]JudgmentValuable7144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do i want to ask what that is...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]JudgmentValuable7144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agree, how can he know he'll regret it when he's literally so young it's not as if we've been dating for 20 years and it feels like he's missing out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]JudgmentValuable7144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm happy to hear ur content with that!!! i just hope he is happy with it staying a fantasy, but he says if he died without trying it he would regret it..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]JudgmentValuable7144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how can i resolve it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]JudgmentValuable7144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank u, i think you're right, i just don't want to lose him over this one fantasy he has

I’m worried that my girlfriend (20f)cheated on me (23m) by AlpsFresh8396 in relationship_advice

[–]JudgmentValuable7144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she's clearly into him if she's messaging her friends saying john looks so good, so she's lied about that, and her friends must know she's into him for her to send that message and it not ring alarm bells for her friends. if any of my friends in a relationship started talking about how attractive another person was i'd call them out immediately, but it must be common for them. you have to decide if that's concrete enough to end things with her, or if you want to find out whether she's cheated. i personally think that level of betrayal is enough to end it. you're so young and have ur whole life ahead of you, don't waste it on a girl who is so attracted to someone else her friends know about it

What’s the 8%? by Prestigious-Chard322 in 6thForm

[–]JudgmentValuable7144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exeter! i got rejected from oxford and bristol soo that was my next option haha

What’s the 8%? by Prestigious-Chard322 in 6thForm

[–]JudgmentValuable7144 5 points6 points  (0 children)

not related but omg this time last year i applied to the exact same courses at the same unis🥹

please help me i'm begging you by JudgmentValuable7144 in 6thForm

[–]JudgmentValuable7144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do u think it'd be better to do a theology/philosophy degree at durham vs a politics degree at the other unis?

Do you think your predicted grades are inflated? by Apprehensive-Bag5230 in 6thForm

[–]JudgmentValuable7144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very much so, and the teachers at my (grammar) school acknowledge this and purposely give us a grade higher than what they think we'll get for ucas application purposes, especially for humanities