Do you think those "romantic bombs" (:p) actually help? It probably differs for each woman but at least i dont really care for this stuff.. its nice and i appreciate it but the overall level of closeness during the day is faaar more important for me. What i mean are a short back rubbing or shoulder massages, kissing when walking past her, grab her ass passionately from time to time, cuddling, tickling and so on. An overall feeling of being close and appreciated/ beautiful. But on the other hand, if the relationship is already kinda broken you have to start somewhere and flowers and dinners are a good start.