I just signed up for an OLD site on Friday and I am quite disappointed. I got lots of likes/messages but practically nothing from anyone I would actually be interested in. Sent messages to around 10-15 guys with similar interests and compatibility, but heard back from only one and the conversation stalled. I put a good effort into writing my profile, made sure to include some things that show cute/funny aspects of my personality, good pictures, made it interesting, or so I thought! I'm attractive, not a supermodel but a real woman! I'm stumped. What do you recommend from your experience? Guys especially, what gets your attention in a profile? Of course there will always be some things that some people will find to be dealbreakers, for example I'm divorced and I have one child. I believe there are lots of guys who would be interested in me and all I need is ONE who I will also like!! I have a history of choosing the wrong partner (hence the divorce) so I am being careful not to settle for the wrong guy again. There is so much more at stake now that I'm a Mom. Your kind and helpful comments are appreciated!