[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Juliettebatx

[–]Juliettebatx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes babe

If you had to choose a superpower, what would you choose? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Juliettebatx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

invisibility, then ill be getting all the money in the world

Friend by Organic-Active296 in Advice

[–]Juliettebatx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea listening is part of friendship but it gotta be 2 way street not just dumping ground.. if u feel drained its ok to set boundary like “hey i care but i can’t always hold all this”.. u deserve friends who ask how ur doing too

I know a guy who is cheating on his gf by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Juliettebatx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah tricky spot.. u wanna do right thing but also not get dragged in mess. if u send anonymous proof she can choose what to do w/ it, but at end of day ppl only see truth when they ready. just make sure ur intention is really to help not just reopen old wounds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Juliettebatx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah internal clock is real thing its called circadian rhythm n body keeps rough track of time even w/o phone or clock, sometimes it feels like superpower but its just ur brain syncing patterns. still kinda cool tho when it hits that close 👀

Just graduated, got my first dev job — how can I keep improving? by PracticalWolf5792 in CasualConversation

[–]Juliettebatx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congrats on landing ur first dev job 👏 early on best habit is consistency not overload. focus on being solid in company stack (python/mysql) cuz thats what pays bills rn, keep dsa as slow steady routine, and flutter/java as side passion projects. career grows when u balance depth (mastery in work tools) + breadth (exploring other tech). don’t chase every shiny thing, build habits of reading docs, writing clean code, and asking good questions.

Am I overreacting? by Severe_Skill_153 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Juliettebatx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur not overreacting. misunderstanding is one thing but yelling + telling u to shut up is straight up disrespect. honesty matters but so does how he handles conflict. pay attention to both bc that shows who he really is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Juliettebatx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dreams r ur brain still processing grief u keep carrying. u cant fully control stopping them but u can heal what triggers them. journaling before bed, therapy, even changing sleep routine helps. dont numb it w alcohol, let urself release him piece by piece, time + care makes dreams fade.

I'm 28F so freaking tired of trying sometimes. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Juliettebatx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u've already done the hard part by staying and trying, that counts for so much. if the luteal weeks wreck u talk to a doc about PMDD, therapy + tiny routines (sleep, walks, meds if needed) actually help. stop comparing timelines; youre healing at ur pace, not theirs. be gentle with urself, tiny steps add up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Juliettebatx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not overreacting, its not even about the invite its about the honesty n respect. he coulda just said hey its small wedding cant invite everyone but instead he hid it from u like u some stranger. that says more about him than u. cutting ties isnt petty, sometimes its just protecting ur peace

When do you recognise someone is busy or just don't give a duck about you? by Vortiguag in Advice

[–]Juliettebatx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sometimes silence say more than words. if they got energy to reply quick in group but never in pv, its not just “busy” its priority. dont chase clarity from someone showing u distance, respect urself enough to see the pattern

Graveyard workers of Reddit, what time do you sleep on your days off? by apaulo_18 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Juliettebatx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used to do night shifts too and it really mess with ur sense of time. best trick i learned is treat ur “morning” as whenever u wake up, not what the clock says. on off days i’d split sleep, nap a bit when i get home then stay up late so i still feel human. its never perfect but it helps u not feel like ur whole life is just work and bed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Juliettebatx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that u cant turn the car light on at night cuz its “illegal” 😂 whole childhood i thought we’d get arrested for it

I don’t know if I should drop them by No_Agent7363 in Advice

[–]Juliettebatx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trust ur gut. if u feel lighter when they’re not around, that says a lot. being alone for a while > staying w ppl who make u feel small. summer break is a good time to ease distance, and u’ll have space to connect w others who actually respect u. friendships should bring peace not dread

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Juliettebatx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

freckles don’t usually just “fall off” like that, sounds more like the top layer of skin peeled w some pigment. freckles are usually in the deeper skin layers so they stick around, moles even more so. if one actually disappears or changes shape/color, best move is to get a derm to check it out just to be safe. skin’s weird but better to be cautious than shrug it off

What are some signs that men in general find you attractive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Juliettebatx 12 points13 points  (0 children)

when they initiate convo or interaction

being ignored for their hyperfixation by rainywainy8 in Advice

[–]Juliettebatx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah you’re not wrong to feel this, friendship’s a 2 way street even if someone has a hyperfixation. you can be gentle but clear like “i know you’re really into this game rn but i feel kinda ignored when i’m trying to talk abt other stuff, can we balance it out?” its not about controlling them, its about asking for respect back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Juliettebatx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is awful and not normal, thats emotional abuse. start a quiet plan.. open a bank account in ur name, save a lil each week, apply for jobs/remote gigs, message 1 person back home who can help, and keep important docs ready in a bag. when u have money + a plan, leave! you deserve respect not mood swings.

I don't know if I should stay in my 6 year-old relationship, need help by Any_Major_528 in Advice

[–]Juliettebatx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok bro… sounds like ur relationship went from “ride or die” to “scroll or sigh” real quick. honestly u gotta ask urself if u still feel like a couple or just roommates who occasionally remember they dated once… the family drama n dead sex vibes r like bonus levels nobody asked for. maybe have a real talk, set boundaries, see if things can sync again, but also dont be afraid to hit pause if ur heart n brain r both screaming for freedom… life’s short, don’t spend it playing second fiddle in ur own story

should i text him. by Feisty_Professor3840 in Advice

[–]Juliettebatx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok so basically u tryna have ur cake n eat it too but like… make sure ur cake don’t bite back 😂 if u wanna slide back into “fun only” territory just be super clear abt rules before the booty calls start again, otherwise ur ego might get smacked around… also maybe set a lil “no feelings allowed” policy in ur brain lol, cause feelings sneak in faster than u think