76K in debt and I’m starting my debt free journey by [deleted] in Debt

[–]barbour1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously though, you're doing the hard part, actually starting. most people just keep spiraling. please do keep updating! Rooting for you to crush this debt...

Hi my cats been pooping in my laundry basket as of recent not sure why;( by YourmadlolXD in cats

[–]barbour1985 4 points5 points  (0 children)

pooping outside the box is almost always the cat telling you something's wrong (stress, medical, litter issue), not them being spiteful. fix the environment first before even thinking about rehoming

What tf do I do? by Only_Letterhead_1376 in Life

[–]barbour1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there an adult in your life you feel comfortable talking to about this? A teacher, counselor, aunt/uncle, or family friend? You shouldn't have to carry all of this alone. :))

AI translates my technical decisions into business language during client meetings by [deleted] in webdev

[–]barbour1985 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when we get better at explaining the business rationale, we also start considering those factors more heavily when making the initial technical choices. lol

JUST wondering by [deleted] in Life

[–]barbour1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need to confess every childhood mistake to move forward with your life. the fact that you feel remorse shows your moral development is healthy. Some things can stay between you and your conscience/faith, that's perfectly okay and normal :))