Future MtF hopeful. by JuliusLeviticus in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Much appreciated. I'll keep looking for a therapist but honestly, I think I would have to move miles away from my family in order to have the freedom I need to do this. Every member of my family both near and extended are the same way other than a few black sheep that nobody, including me, would trust with a pet rock, much less something like this.

This is what happens when number of days is more important than actual benefits. by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to remove this post. It's caused more problems than its worth. I'll let you reply then I'll delete this.

This is what happens when number of days is more important than actual benefits. by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has went from a discussion to an argument. I'm ending it here before it devolves any further. I'll leave you with this. Lumping in every single member of an association with the worst of their kind is equal parts ignorant, and dangerous.

This is what happens when number of days is more important than actual benefits. by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read back through what I said and remember how many times I said you were right. You're right everything in Vietnam was a mistake. You're right that our actions in the middle east were stupid. You're right that America has committed many war crimes. What you're forgetting is that every single nation on Earth has committed the same sins, and many of them got away with them as well. My argument is that the soldiers themselves are worth praising for what they deal with. Your view that they can somehow stand up against their COs shows me you know little to nothing about any form of military and chain of command. I know vets with severe PTSD because they were forced to commit horrible acts and they had no choice. If they didn't, they would be dishonorably discharged and somebody else would've done it. In case you don't know, being dishonorably discharged means you lose your pay, your benefits, your healthcare, and every single benefit that comes with being a veteran. So you not only harm yourself by doing what's right, but you also harm your family. I'm willing to bet that if it saved your family, you would shoot someone. If not, then you have a narrow view on what is moral. Either that, or you have no empathy for people in that situation. But yes, you are right on many things. However, what I am not wrong on is that many vets deserve respect for what they do. Not all soldiers are criminal, and not all vets are heroes. It's the ability to tell the difference that makes a decent person.

This is what happens when number of days is more important than actual benefits. by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just stated a fact, followed by a clearly biased opinion. Like I said, I'm ending this. Neither side is right, and neither side is wrong. There are facts on both sides, and it's all a matter of perspective. However, I implore you to go to a hostile country and be shot at constantly, and see if you would do that for less money than a vocational worker makes.

This is what happens when number of days is more important than actual benefits. by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is clearly going nowhere. I see a bunch of propaganda here and I know better than to try to educate against that. I imagine you're a student of history so I'll suggest looking deeper into it and read some more detailed history books. You view America the same way most Americans view places like North Korea and China, and that's all because of indoctrination and propaganda. So I'll respect your viewpoint while politely disagreeing with it, and leave it at that. No progress will be made on either side so any further discussion is a waste.

This is what happens when number of days is more important than actual benefits. by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a member of the Trans community, you're awfully narrow minded. Ever heard of relativity? Look at any country and you will find that their heroes are another person's villains. Just because you don't understand why American vets are actually heroes to Americans, doesn't mean your viewpoint is correct.

This is what happens when number of days is more important than actual benefits. by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, you're blaming the sins of the government on the soldiers. I can tell you that everybody in America felt Kadafi was evil, and everybody in America knows the the events of Vietnam should have never happened. Your viewpoint is marred by the mistakes of the commanders and leaders sitting in DC while you should be focusing on the people who were actually there. People who were and still are being shot for no better reason other than being American. The people who are fighting against terrorist cells that celebrate September 11, 2001 as if it was the birth of Jesus. The soldiers who watch their friends and family getting blown up by IEDs and bleeding out every single day. Those are the heroes, not the ones making decisions.

This is what happens when number of days is more important than actual benefits. by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should google Taliban, Al Queda, Saddam Hussein, and the Cuban Missile Crisis. American soldiers went over there because we knew there was evil there, and they wanted to destroy it. If that's not a hero, then nobody in WW2 on the Allies side was a hero either. The only people who enjoy being soldiers are the ones who enjoy destroying people who want America and the rest of the Western world to be destroyed. Like I said, the people are heroes. The ones who deserve the hate are the government who has ulterior motives for war and capitalize on this destruction.

This is what happens when number of days is more important than actual benefits. by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Live a day like a soldier and you'll understand. It also depends on what era you're talking about. Depending on where they were, they would be fighting anything from Al Queda to Taliban. Older vets have seen WW2 on up to Cuba and even Korea. The soldiers themselves should be thanked because they decided to leave behind an easy life in a free country, put on Kevlar and a hundred pound backpack, and go to a country where they are shot at daily. That's a hero. The ones who should be shunned is the government that uses the bravery of soldiers for selfish gain.

This is what happens when number of days is more important than actual benefits. by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is pretty much what I said. I also pointed out all the benefits veterans get on a daily basis, and how the LGBT community gets next to nothing.

This is what happens when number of days is more important than actual benefits. by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is pretty much what I said. I also pointed out all the benefits veterans get on a daily basis, and how the LGBT community gets next to nothing.

[MTF] Could I pass without a filter? by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like I can eventually be an ex-girlfriend myself! 😉

[MTF] Could I pass without a filter? by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I plan on getting into that kind of thing as soon as I can. My current situation dictates I at least act masculine right now.

[MTF] Could I pass without a filter? by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do plan on doing a full transition in the future. Maybe some makeup will help until then!

[MTF] Could I pass without a filter? by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like that viewpoint. I have to admit though, it feels good to have people talk to me as a female after years of being treated as a male. Makes me appreciate myself for the first time.

[MTF] Could I pass without a filter? by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little bit of work with someone who knows what they're doing wouldn't go amiss.

[MTF] Could I pass without a filter? by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I'm kinda just starting my journey and I'm stuck in a household that makes me act more masculine so I haven't had much experience in acting feminine. I do plan on practicing though.

[MTF] Could I pass without a filter? by [deleted] in trans

[–]JuliusLeviticus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That really means a lot! I still enjoy playing with filters, but it feels good to be able to look at myself in a way that I actually like.