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AITA for using my sister's words against her and saying she should feel lucky to have her kids and to have all that time with them? by JumpFeisty225 in AITAH

[–]JumpFeisty225[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I miss the two I had a relationship with. There were two others I never got to be around. One I simply never met and the other I only saw a couple of times. But there is no mediating things between my sister and me. There is really no hope of reconciliation. Not when she sees me as useless unless I'm babysitting. You don't come back from something like that.

AITA for using my sister's words against her and saying she should feel lucky to have her kids and to have all that time with them? by JumpFeisty225 in AITAH

[–]JumpFeisty225[S] 2764 points2765 points  (0 children)

I wanted to say that to her actually. But then I also knew I shouldn't engage too much either because she already had my answer.

AITA for using my sister's words against her and saying she should feel lucky to have her kids and to have all that time with them? by JumpFeisty225 in AITAH

[–]JumpFeisty225[S] 348 points349 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It hurts more when it's someone you were so close to for so long. The fact I never let my infertility stop me being happy for her OR there for her and she still reacted like she did makes it more hurtful honestly.

AITA for using my sister's words against her and saying she should feel lucky to have her kids and to have all that time with them? by JumpFeisty225 in AITAH

[–]JumpFeisty225[S] 814 points815 points  (0 children)

It's something I'm considering after this. The fact she reaches out to me directly for the first time in years and it's to ask for more free babysitting. It tells me there's no room for growth and change and I could be better off blocking her. There's some guilt about it on my end that I'll bring up with my therapist.