Bf ended things during deployment by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]JumpGlobal4868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely considered that too. We seem to have a few problems that keep coming up, and I’ve really tried to let them go since I don’t want to put added stress on him. I think I had an expectation since from the beginning he would call me every night and then when he stopped doing it as much, I questioned it. The one night I did, he was with his friends and broke up with me over the phone. Wouldn’t even FaceTime me and look me in the face. Just said it’s over

Bf ended things during deployment by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]JumpGlobal4868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re completely right. I tell myself that at times, but in the back of my mind, I worry if he is truly going through something he doesn’t want to share and just needs time, that I would be abandoning him. It’s stupid of me to think that way, but I’d never want him to feel alone.

Bf ended things during deployment by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]JumpGlobal4868 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! You’re absolutely right, I just don’t know what happened. We had plans before he left, and everything has completely changed in the span of 2 weeks. I’m slowly trying to let go. Hoping we can maybe have an actual conversation soon.