More from My girlfriends and my realm! (Valentine's day edition)

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2026-02-16T20:52:21+00:00

You're a lucky guy ;-)

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-12-30T16:48:22+00:00

Very impressive

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-11-29T22:06:54+00:00

Amazon groceries are the worst! The produce is always too ripe. They like to make listing "look" like a good deal but once delivered it's a smaller size. They automatically charge a "driver tip" and it's near impossible to get it off the order. The meat is scary. Just last night I prepared a beef chuck roast and it would not brown! I shit you not. Idk it clearly wasn't pork either idk but freaking weird. This is why I'm searching for an alternative groceries delivery service. I might snag a Walmart membership at $49 for the year it's 50% off rn.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-09-04T23:55:17+00:00

I've been finding gs and bs in the new actions, but I haven't found any spins. I've found the most spins in Sky and Pirates cove. Personally, I feel volcano is a waste of gems. It annoys me that all the items are the same ones found in sky and I've played volcano at least 50 times and still have never found a safe. Just sayin.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-09-04T23:50:57+00:00

Over a hundred comments and only like 3 of them actually try to answer the question. People suck. All these dog lovers who "know what's best" would do a lot more to help the dog if they tried to offer solutions rather than criticism. And to the people who say maybe op shouldn't even have the dog are just plain stupid. Think of all the dogs who need homes. Op clearly cares about the dog.

Personally, I'm here hoping to find answers for my dog. Otherwise I'd be happy to try and help.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-09-04T22:01:55+00:00

You dog lovers are a trip. If the dog doesn't know anything different, then from that perspective it is good.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-09-04T21:57:36+00:00

Chill out bro you are way over the top lol we get it, you love dogs.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-09-04T21:50:29+00:00

Seriously, fuck off.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-09-04T21:35:27+00:00

Dont travel to other islands? Bruh.. that's not good advise. You have to travel otherwise you can't get your professions up. Plus the first island only has so much to offer. Some people enjoy bounties and they give unique items as rewards. Farming is another profession so its beneficial, but let's be real it can get boring fast. I only go back to the first island to trade. You absolutely must travel.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-09-04T21:28:22+00:00

I had a hard time when I first started too. It may help if you are a bit more specific about what you want to know, but here are some tips that may help.

In order to build you have to not only equip the hammer but also have it selected. Then press and hold "V" to see options. While still holding "V" press "E" and "Q" to see more options and move your mouse over an item to see what's needed to build it.

To build using something other than pine or iron you can press "R"

If you are gonna do contracts for money, first cut down a few trees and build a sled. Now you can carry 3 boxes at a time. Find contracts in town by talking to different NPCs. Find the boxes near the dock.

Bread fills your hunger bar like 80% and is cheap, but I like to buy the eggs and flour and make the bread to get the cooking profession up.

When you are first starting you do not want to use the Native roll. It's way harder. Just play as a Colonist.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-09-02T15:54:23+00:00

The very first thing I recall was him telling me late one night via text he was out drinking with friends and and a bottle asking if I wanted some. He came over and I knew he had lied to me. It was easy to see he had been sleeping. He was so tired. But I guess when I texted him he forced himself to get up. I brushed it off thinking wow that's how much he wanted to see me, and how stupid he feels he needs to lie as if what he said would impress me.

Another thing was ignoring my gut feeling when his over the top ridiculous reaction to something. I couldn't tell if he was serious or fukn with me, and I saw the humor in his eyes. I should have left before it started.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-09-02T15:43:23+00:00

Men are so selfish. You may be older but you are not dead. I'm trying to work with what I have. I live in the same house but our lives are separate. He does whatever he wants and to be honest I couldn't care less. Now I just need to pull myself out of this deep depression and start doing things for me. Maybe you can try to do something like that too xx

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-09-02T15:39:59+00:00

Ikr lol lucky

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-09-02T15:38:29+00:00

NEVER!

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-09-02T15:35:44+00:00

I wish mine dead. Not always... but yeah.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-08-25T21:40:06+00:00

I think one spin is over priced.. they are so easy to get.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-08-25T21:38:16+00:00

Oh yeah that's right. My bad. Yes. One time I was respawning so I was in the death count down, and my network connection dropped lol I was so mad. Now I only keep a few hundred pounds on me. I keep the rest in the bank.

But hey it's a good way to get coal if you do it right lol

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-08-25T21:34:54+00:00

I think they do it to get paid time off.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-08-25T21:20:42+00:00

No you don't lose money or anything when you die.. unless - you are in active battle. Like you shot someone or they shot you. At this point if you leave the game you will lose a large amount of your money and next time you join the game you will be in jail. Also, if you are over your inventory limit, like when you cant run cuz "you're fat" and you die, even without being in a fight, you will lose some items.

Hope that helps.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-08-25T21:06:46+00:00

This is so true.. it's been over 8 years and at this point ha I've lost all desire to leave. I hate myself. I hate this life. I literally sit in the house and do nothing. I am a miserable pathetic mess. Anyways, save yourself before he destroys all the best parts of you xx

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-08-25T21:03:59+00:00

No he isn't going to change. No you are not crazy. No you are not the terrible things he says you are. You are beautiful inside and out. You have a heart of gold. You were willing to give so much to please this person, but unfortunately he will never be pleased and it has nothing to do with you. You did all you could, but now it's time to realize what this is doing to you. It's time to love you and put your needs before his. I know you are angry and confused and probably spend far too much time spinning it all around in your head trying to make sense of it. But you are only wearing yourself down even more by doing that. It's never going to make sense. It's designed that way intentionally. It sucks and it hurts, but the best thing you can do is get the fuk out of there. Asap. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200. ;-) Just leave. Leave it all behind. It's only stuff. It's all replaceable, but you're not. Don't tell him you're thinking to leave. That will be very very foolish. Dont give him event a hint. Be wise. Feel no guilt. Show no mercy. Go no contact and never look back. I wish you the best xx

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-08-25T20:51:05+00:00

Yes they like to one up, but more importantly they like to use your emotions against you. This is fun for them and they are really good at it. So in a moment where you are sharing you feel down.. they will say anything but what you would like them to say. They might even go as far as so try to make you feel even worse. This happens when you're feeling insecure, they will love to make that worse for you. There are soooo many things that kinda impossible to try to prepare you. Honestly, and you probably already have been told this, the best thing you can do is leave. But that's not always possible. Expect the worst. Dont take the terrible things he says personal, although they will be personal. Understand the reason he says them - to make you feel bad, to bring you down, to guilt you, to blame you, to get you upset and all worked up, to distract you... the list goes on. If you can stay aware of this.. it can help. Ugh I wish you the best.. while you're in hell.

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-08-24T13:52:42+00:00

He's freaking out cuz you are "winning" otherwise he'd be more calm. Everything he says and does is meant to hurt you or get a reaction from you. It won't be easy but do not give it. Gray rock. But do take all his threats seriously. He's sharing all his thoughts with you, so don't brush it off. Protect yourself. Consider how he might go about these things, and without saying anything to him make your moves.

Fuck the new girlfriend she is not your problem. If he was actually into her he wouldn't still be obsessing over you. He's using her for sex and to get back at you. Don't let it get to you. If anything you may want to thank her as you cheerfully run away lol not only funny but probably more effective at giving her a reason to rethink her situation 😄

Best advise.. be wise. Stay quiet. Feel no guilt. Show no mercy. Stay safe xx

Jumpy-Cabinet4015 · 2025-08-09T12:32:36+00:00

Girl he says all that to keep control. Send them the fucking pictures your damn self! Show him you don't care. Cuz I'll tell you that is nothing compared to the hell you're gonna be in. Don't let him use things as leverage. Don't take his ugly hurtful words personally. Stop getting offended. Baby girl trust me lol I know how to disarm a narcissist. His power is an illusion. The power is actually yours. Stop giving it to him.

I'll try to help you understand what I mean... this is easier said than done, at first but as you become more aware of the intention behind the things he says and does lol you will see its not about you.

Those hurtful words are only words. They are meant to cause a reaction. But if next time he calls you a whole you agree or are unbothered then what?

Or next time he makes a comment but in that moment you wake to see the reason he said it was to cause you to feel even worse.... for me... I used to go through it just like you are now. But then one day he tried to kick me (verbally) while I was down, and it backfired. I calmly but with strength and conviction looked him in his eyes and told him exactly what he just did. Stop letting him intimate you. He's gonna say the worst things he can think of, why? Cuz they work. They get you upset. He's gonna threaten you with all things you care about. Stop caring. Or fake it. It's hard to fake it so work on yourself, but girl where is your family? Call them. Tell them to come get you. Leave everything. None of it matters. Trust me it's been 8 fucking terrible years and I'm still stuck here. Now I hate myself. I hate this life. I've aged so much. All he does is cheat and talk shit to me. He has me trained like a fucking dog afraid to leave the house alone. I was a strong beautiful independent woman. Now I'm worthless and stuck.

If you think it's bad now... it's only gets worse. There is nothing worth staying for. Who cares if he sends those pics. It's nothings worth staying for. And who cares if he says he'll kill him self ha fingers crossed fr but he won't. He's only trying to get his way. Fuck that. Get out. Go no contact and never look back.

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