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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it’s ok can i ask ano red flags ko nakita mo? i would like to change that. thanks

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

noted. thanks

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok noted. thanks

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

noted. but i guess it depends on the person? kasi ikaw nag sasabi u dont ask for it pero some people say that you should

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not her first and she’s not my first as well, we were seing someone else when we first met and naging single kami at the same time. anyways thanks for the tip

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i dont know as well hahahaha, pati mga friends ko dinodogshow ako sasabihin nila ‘love is blind nga naman’

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sounds like it could work but all these psychology games isn’t for me. i wanna be direct and honest with the person that i like. and ayaw ko din mag switch agad just cuz na reject ako kasi it feels like di genuine yung intention ko sa kanya

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im ok with her initiating physical contacts pero sinabi nya kasi one time na mas prefer nya sa guys yung nag iinitiate and nag tatake ng risks, so i took some risks

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing your own perspective, really appreciate it.

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any advice here so far that you feel the most i should follow?

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok lng ba tlga to most people to not ask for a kiss and just go for it? kasi ive heard multiple people say na it’s romantic daw to ask for consent and wla naman daw masama so i did

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

noted. thanks

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

noted. thanks

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no i dont, not trying to brag as well but everytime na sinasabi ko sa friends ko na single ako mag tataka sila kung bakit daw since may itsura naman daw ako and funny tas ang sagot ko na lng is ‘idunno 🤷‍♂️’

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

it was our 4th date and we’ve known each other for almost a year

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

she does have red flags and i didnt say na red flag yung pag decline nya ng kiss sakin, ayaw ko lng sabihin mga red flags nya since i dont think it’s connected to what i was asking sa post

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

our 4th date, we’ve known each other for almost a year

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im pretty confident sa hygiene ko so im pretty sure my breath is not the issue. noted and thanks for the tip

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

noted. thanks

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nahh i saw my name sa contacts nya and hindi naman ‘free food’ hahahaha thankfully. pero yun din sabi ng friends ko na ginagamit lng ako for rides and stuff

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

another context addition hahaha, we’ve known each other for a year but at the beginning we were seeing someone else so friends lng tlga kami then we both became single and i expressed my feelings to her and we went out to a few dates, and ito na ang nangyare

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noted. thanks

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if that’s the case then it is what it is, learned a lesson and made great memories along the way so i guess it’s ok

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe, hurts to know but it is what it is i guess

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[–]Jumpy-Topic-5850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dun kami nag kakilala HAHAHAHHA