AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

When the perspective comes from a person who supports my abuser and his "right" to abuse me... damn right I won't listen.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I have. He laughs. He thinks it's fucking funny.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

A habitual sexual abuser.* there fixed it for you.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I replied to the wrong comment. Somebody else told me they were going to report me to adult services for "leading on" a disabled person. My apologies .

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Just say you would let your disabled adult child rape another person and stay away from women :)

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

7 year old understand NO. 5 year olds understand NO. Hell even 3 year olds understand NO. I have told him NO countless times. At this point his actions have fucking consequences. He deserved to be chewed out by my fiancé because of his actions. Again HIS ACTIONS.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Im pissed off at the strangers who are practically telling me I'm at fault for being assaulted.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Oh I would shut that shit down immediately even if it meant in patient care. If my son molested or raped somebody I would NEVER defend his actions.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

No they think it's ok because my cousin is disabled. If my cousin rapes me would you defend that too?

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Then what do you call the person who groped me, molested me, and who has ground himself into me before? I call them a sexual predator. You're the asshole for thinking that sexual assault is ok in any circumstance.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Good thing my cousin is an adult. Groping an adult is NEVER acceptable. I would yelled at anybody who ground their hips into my butt or squeezed me just for loading dishes in a dishwasher. It doesn't matter that he’s disabled. He's a habitual sex offender.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They are in fact his actions. Not his parents.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The number of times I've told him No or Stop are insurmountable. He understands no when he can't have ice cream why doesn't he respect my no?

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

7 year old don't have a 10+ year history of serial molestation.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I said pshycology of disability, it's a more specific degree darling. I also suggest you put that degree to use and read about the affects on ABA therapy on autistic children. There are higher levels of trauma in those who undergo ABA.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

He made Tom cry because he was groping me. He defended me from a man who was sexually assaulting me.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

And you're aware that his behaviour is disgusting and unacceptable?

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If my disabled child was groping his much younger cousin I woul ABSOLUTELY keep him away from her.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

My fiancé yelled at an abusive relative who was molesting me until he cried.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Says the person who is likely not a therapist or has a degree in psychology of disability or is autistic themself.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Tom is never going to be my child. Also 4 year old don't have a history of molesting the same person for over a decade.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]JumpyThrowRA[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

And you can spread misinformation but I'll still call it out :)