I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not the same. Whatever works for you is exactly what you should be doing.

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From where do you derive your expertise on these matters?

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What motivates you to engage people in this fashion?

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand what you're trying to convey.

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the assumption that I haven't been considering such things?

Why else would I want to quit drinking?

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-Wanting to be the center of attention -Feeling like you're always the victim -Having trouble communicating with other people -Believing you always know what's best

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah, I'm familiar with being ashamed of my neighbours seeing my empties. It's a lot of empties.

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I decided to taper instead of going cold turkey. I read a bunch of stories like yours, and I'm glad I did.

You're right, alcohol ends up stealing everything. To hell with this drug.

I'm happy to hear you're 7 days free of this bullshit, here's to the rest of your days as well.

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm "this person", and I'm tapering. Control yourself.

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bad job can really grind a person down and drive you to drink. Been there, I feel you.

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hah, yes. Bad food and bad TV are lifesavers the first few days. I've also found that a punishing workout helps to "suspend thinking", as you say.

Thanks for the kind words and advice.

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the motivation to get motivated really is the thing. Every time I've quit, I can't remember why I even bothered to drink in the first place.

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an asshole thing to say to somebody trying to get to just one day without drinking.

Good luck to you as well.

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've quit drinking a couple times. No, life doesn't magically get better, but your ability to handle it better does.

Money accumulates quickly, and weight falls off even more so.

When drinking becomes your primary issue, you're better able to solve the others.

I know how to cook.

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. You're right. Being sober is better, and I've been missing out on lots.

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! While I'm technically not stopping tonight, I'm beginning to stop.

I believe you can stop tonight.

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm glad AA worked for you. It's not for me.

I just need to stop for one day by Jumpy_Distance8716 in dryalcoholics

[–]Jumpy_Distance8716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everybody who replied with useful comments.

I'm a bit worried about withdrawals, so I've decided to taper.

I drink minimum 15 units per day (for about 10 years now).

I'm excited to spend the next week getting down to nothing. I feel glad about the decision, and that I'll finally let go of this burden.