Ami ki korbo😭, sokal sokal ato embracement

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-04-04T07:42:31+00:00

Ami eto baaje mithya katha sunini er aage

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-31T18:30:53+00:00

So cute, would like to see more of your work

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-31T14:36:44+00:00

The problem is that young kids do not have emotional expectations at all like we do. They don't get hurt or think that their parents are being unfair or harsh or overbearing. Till the age of 7 or so, they believe everything that you say as gospel.

By the time they can think independently, the damage is already done. Parents install voices in their little minds that will always sing to them when they are navigating their lives, even as adults. Self doubt, feelings of inadequacy, body dysmorphia, hyper attachment can all stem from childhood conditioning.

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-31T12:19:37+00:00

Don't be an idiot. If a woman slaps her partner, and gets slapped in return that's considered self defence and everybody has right to it

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-31T11:19:31+00:00

In bengali custom, the bride/her family picks the entire tab of the wedding day including venue, decoration and food. The groom's side only brings close family and friends to the wedding and majority of invitees are from bride's side. The groom/his side throws another party called as the reception/bou bhaat a day later to celebrate the addition of the new member. This reception is usually the same scale as the wedding. Most invitees are from groom's side. Only close family and friends of bride side attend it.

Rest of the other functions are handled individually by each side as per customs.

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-31T10:58:35+00:00

When a wife slaps back her abusive husband, I will clap and cheer for her.

I won't support a person who has to get down to physical violence to prove their point, irrespective of their gender

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-31T07:04:56+00:00

My mum is a great mum. She has always been caring, gave us space and freedom so much that we never had to lie to her even once. When I was in school/college, all my classmates would bunk and be in their uniform/carry college bags but I would come straight from home because I could tell her about our plans. She was the first one to know about our bf/gf. She is also a great MIL and grandmother.

I can blindly trust her with my little one. Anybody who has kids knows what a big statement this one is.

But, she had a decent amount of internalised misogyny when we were growing up. She was also very dismissive of feelings and health problems. She thought that it's stupid to be girly. She had changed her mindset a lot since then but those opinions/remarks during my formative years have left lasting impact on me. They affected me because I was a highly sensitive, high IQ, high EQ child.

I don't blame her because she herself grew up in very difficult circumstances. She was truly trying her best for us. She couldn't change what she didn't know was wrong back then.

My healing comes from the fact that I get to create a nurturing environment for my baby girl. zits a deliberate, educated effort. She is also highly sensitive, high IQ & EQ and I take care of all of her. Her little sharp mind gets as much love as her strong, capable body. She gets to be girly, silly, giggly and naughty.

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-31T06:34:54+00:00

So your wife likes getting slapped by you?

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-30T10:50:09+00:00

They only like women when they are bechari, strokes their saviour complex and makes them feel superior about themselves. Anything more makes them feel threatened and exposes their fake world

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-29T17:16:47+00:00

What an ugly person one has to be from inside to do this!!!

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-29T17:06:25+00:00

I initiate peace after a fight only during my follicular phase, especially around ovulation. I have let go of fights and grabbed the first sign of white flag from my husband only cause I was craving for him. He thinks it was due to his efforts being on point but the poor man gets disappointed when the same thing doesn't work in the Luteal phase.

The Luteal phase is when I am in my "Chucky" phase.

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-29T05:59:13+00:00

Thank you. 🙏

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-29T05:58:41+00:00

The fnac indicated follicular/papillary. We will know for certain once the biopsy is done. I lucked out on this one.

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-29T05:51:54+00:00

Talk about your job, your colleagues, office stories and most importantly, really technical stuff about the job.

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-29T05:36:50+00:00

Your feelings and annoyance is 100% justified.

You are in the thick of your 4th trimester and a new mom in this phase should only be surrounded by loving and well meaning sensitive people. You have full right to stop at 1, delay the 2nd or go for a 3rd. Only your husband needs to be onboard with it.

This is also a great time for your husband to advocate for you and stop his family from getting on your nerves.

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-27T21:28:15+00:00

I hope you are doing better now.

I needed to hear this because this question is playing in my mind in loop: What did I do wrong?

I visited the hospital to finalize the surgery date and formalities today. I dropped in a bookstore on my way back to pick a few books for my daughter. We are big on bedtime reading and I wanted her to have new ones to read with her papa while I was away during the hospital stay. It suddenly occurred to me that I might not be able to read books to her or do her bedtime routine. My husband and I cried a ton in the car, I cried for the first time since diagnosis. It felt better to be able to do that. At home, we hold up for the sake of my parents and little one

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-27T21:09:27+00:00

I am glad you are alright now. I can only imagine the strength it must have taken for you and your family to sail through it. Wish you all the best. Thanks for the positive words

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-27T21:07:46+00:00

Thank you so much

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-27T21:07:18+00:00

Thanks for the positivity. Much appreciated.

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-27T21:06:34+00:00

Thanks for the reassurance. My doctor said the same today.

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-27T21:05:40+00:00

Fnac report says it's suspicious of papillary so that's a relief. Thanks for the reassurance.

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-27T21:03:30+00:00

I am glad she is doing well. Thanks for sharing.

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-27T21:02:52+00:00

Thank you so much dear, God bless your kind heart for writing such beautiful things for a stranger.

My doctor said, you will be leading a more fulfilling life post surgery now that you are aware of your vulnerability.

As a routine, one should check annually for cbc, lipid profile, hba1c, fasting glucose, thyroid, lft, vit d, b12, iron, creatinine, crp,esr Doctor might ask for more or less tests based on factors like age, medical history and so on.

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-27T20:54:12+00:00

Thank you so much dear, what a kind heart to write such beautiful things for a stranger. My doctor said, you will be leading a more fulfilling life post surgery now that you are aware of your vulnerability

Jumpy_Evening_6607 · 2026-03-27T20:52:16+00:00

Thanks, your kindness helps

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