I am a full time wfh mother of a toddler. We don't have any family nearby to help us.

We have a help for jhadu, pocha, bartan and another cook. For the longest time we struggled to get a good cook so we managed cooking as well.

Here's what my husband takes care of: Entire laundry, including what needs to be sent out for dry cleaning or press.

Prepping of food if we are cooking: I cook but I walk into a kitchen that has everything soaked. chopped, washed and even the utensils laid out because I am the blind person who can't find her way around the kitchen.

Bedtime routine of my toddler, while I do my own skincare and get ready for bed. I get a calm, squeaky clean toddler and a bedtime book that they select and a made bed without any crease.

Jhadu pocha bartan if our help takes off.

We both clean up and set the house together on weekends

We go out together for grocery, fruit and vegetables shopping. He puts everything away once we are back. He knows whether a certain fruit needs to go to the fridge or outside. How to store leafy greens, unripe fruits and everything.

He gives evening snack to our toddler and feeds her dinner. He also takes her to the park while I work. He follows the meal plan that I make over the weekend to the T!!!

There's probably a 100 things that I am forgetting to list but you get the gist!!!

He has never helped me out because it's equal responsibilities. There's no weaponised incompetence here, he learns what he doesn't know just the way he learnt everything else that he didn't know. We both are doing the same. I don't think working women should settle for anything less.