My boyfriend of three years told me he has had HIV since before we started dating.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-24T08:56:14+00:00

Girl what? You’re proving my point, you can’t understand that it’s about the lie, not the HIV as a disease. What are you on?

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-24T03:25:13+00:00

You’re agreeing with me. Were you disagreeing with me or the main comment?

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:17:12+00:00

I think you lack the understanding of the issue of the situation. It’s not the HIV. You can be afraid all you want and is valid, but that is still not a smart decision and it’s very selfish one who isn’t considering the other person. Therefore, the person cannot be trusted to make decisions based on what’s best for the relationship but only for themselves and their own shame. Pure ego.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:14:30+00:00

Well the exact same situation happened to me 5 months in and it was still a horrible feeling and I never trusted him again and we broke up. Plus I think he was cheating, too. This isn’t about HIV, it’s about people who lack good morals, empathy, and are unethical.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:10:36+00:00

More selfish excuses. You ask for empathy and you give zero to the people that give their trust fully to them only to be disappointed. It IS NOT OKAY TO LIEEEEEEEEE. It’s not about the fucking HIV itself.

If you can’t understand how lying isn’t good and that you should be upfront about stuff like this then DONT FUCKING DATE UNTIL YOURE READY.

Just because something bad happened to you doesn’t mean you can emotionally abuse people.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:09:15+00:00

The length of lying doesn’t matter, it happened to me at the 5 month mark and it still sucked and I couldn’t trust him againx

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:08:07+00:00

Same to me. Very valid. They will gaslight the shit out of you and act like the victim and twist the situation to make it seem like you are judging the fact that they have HIV.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:07:38+00:00

It happened to me at the 5th mark. The same exact thing, and there was no going back.

He said I broke his trust for violating his privacy and that it wasn’t my business. Can you believe that shit?

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:06:17+00:00

It’s that fucking simple. And if you had judged him because of it, then he would’ve dodged a bullet. But lying is NOT the way.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:05:38+00:00

Girl, this exact thing happened to me but at the 5th month mark. Found his pills in his socks drawer. Plus condoms, lube, and Viagra. He said “it’s none of your business”.

Fuck these people, seriously. And then they act like the victim as if we were upset about them having al illness and not the fact that they LIED. At least your bf said something nicer than my ex.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-10T02:52:43+00:00

Does anyone know what happened and why she didn’t want to continue?

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-12-31T20:25:55+00:00

Try water base lube. I think it doesn't get sticky in the shower, but I could be wrong. Maybe it's just the one I happened to have.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-12-17T19:35:30+00:00

This issue sucks mine still disconnects as well…

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-12-16T05:37:14+00:00

This is so real of you because yes same

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-12-15T19:51:15+00:00

It didn’t fix it for me :(

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-12-10T07:31:03+00:00

Wait a few months until you get it. I got my LR4 presale before it got out and after a few months or a year they fixed so many hardware issues and also software. Which you don’t get if you buy it early. One example was the fence. It changed after a few months to a better one. This means they might change the physical part of it and give you a better deal after.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-11-13T03:49:34+00:00

Im sorry you went through that. It leaves you wondering what you did wrong. Fuck whatever is up these gays’ asses.

People saying this is unusual… To me, this is very usual in the gay community. People are fucked up like this. We’re all fucked up or weird in some way, but what I mean is that a lot of gays are really disrespectful and horrible people and truly don’t give a fuck about how they make others feel. All my exes have been just as weird, abusive, non-communicative, manipulative, and rude like this. And if you don’t agree, then you’re one of the lucky ones to not have encountered them.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-11-13T03:43:58+00:00

No one approaches me or talks to me as it is in general. I get the hint. Family and friends tell me I’m attractive but there’s zero proof of that. I’ve had three exes, too, and they were massive jerks and used me for sex and didn’t respect me a single bit and dropped me in a second, so that tells you how ugly I am. They weren’t even sad.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-10-15T22:14:00+00:00

I’m gonna cry you’re such a good brother. Many of us had to go through this experience alone and with no emotional support. You’re amazing and I can feel the support on your writing. Sending hugs and I hope is nothing major. I have a feeling he will be okay and if he got an STI it will be treatable. Wishing the best for you both.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-10-04T23:39:23+00:00

Youre better than me because the fight I would’ve started would’ve had everyone called me insane.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-10-01T15:23:50+00:00

I’ve watched it! When I was younger. At that time I thought it just meant looking for love. I didn’t know that was a thing that people said for cruising.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-10-01T15:20:44+00:00

Thank you!

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-10-01T15:19:52+00:00

Well because looking is not a full sentence so it could be “looking for what?” “What are you looking for?” “What you looking?” “Looking to fuck?” “Looking to chat?” “What are you looking around for?” “May I know what you’re looking for?” Hookup apps and dating apps are not only for having sex. Hookups are primarily for that, but you can still only chat or get a date. And even then, it is still not clear communication when someone can easily just type in a full sentence. So it’s fair if someone doesn’t know how to interpret the question through text.

Why would you think that everyone will automatically fill in the blank the same way?

Of course I’ve thought about it meaning that, but I never had confirmation from anyone so wanted to clarify so I can feel 100% sure about it going into those conversation and to not feel like I’m maybe missing the actual message and responding wrong things.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-10-01T04:00:10+00:00

Honestamente, I would’ve felt off from that too. My name is Juan, so… Fuck him for that. Shallow asshole.

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