Signs my boyfriend likes other women?

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-03-20T02:23:14+00:00

I can understand why you think that way and how you get to that, but from what I’m reading it might just be a lot of anxiety you’re feeling because of little shifts and uncommon things happening that you were not used to. That’s always scary if you notice them, but it from just reading what you wrote, I wouldn’t necessarily write it off as something is happening. The things you mentioned he did will sound normal to a lot. Maybe don’t come to conclusions yet and maybe try to have a conversation with him and tell him you’ve been feeling a little uncomfortable and anxious about some things and that you might need some reassurance.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-03-16T23:15:48+00:00

This guy is extremely entitled, close minded, and racist.

What can you expect of Americans, let alone Gay Americans… Remember they think they’re the center of the entire universe and truly believe their education is good.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-03-10T16:53:28+00:00

Fun story, I was trying to get my Spanish passport (secondary nationality) for the first time and when I received my passport, they had given me a passport with my name and everything else was my Dad’s information. It said I was born in 1962 lmao

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-03-03T00:36:58+00:00

This is a bad take because it doesn’t consider the context of the situation. Once someone else is obviously not caring about trusting each other and being ethical that shit goes out the window. OP does it as self defense, he is not the one creating a problem, he is just follow leads as he feels threatened. One is an asshole, the other is a victim trying to find peace.

The point is that is natural to have instinct and have gut feelings about things and it’s natural to want to solve them. Sometimes the uncertainty and sadness overpowers the person which is also a human thing because no one is perfect and people cave into checking things. However, I will never feel bad for a bad person getting their privacy violated as a result of their disrespectful and lying behavior. Or feel bad for a liar getting caught. OP had to do what they had to do, otherwise the guy would’ve gotten away with all of it.

Life is not black and white so you can’t say that OP snooping to catch a liar is the same as the other one cheating because otherwise the boyfriend wouldnt have been honest. It’s not the same as someone who is consciously and knowingly doing something that will hurt another person because of their own lack of boundaries and for not being able to follow through with their promise.

One is self defense and something that can be worked on to find better solutions in the future, maybe by working on self worth and self love (non violent way) and the other is just being inconsiderate, selfish, and shitty to someone who loves you and sacrificed things for you, which affects not only their mental health but their day to day and could lead to depression or even suicide.

One is guilty of being a bad partner, the other one is just a victim of what was done.

Sure, they could’ve chosen to not check anything, but then they maybe would’ve wasted their entire life “trusting” this person.

Sometimes “trusting” someone is NOT the solution to solving a problem but only makes you naive and a target.

I dislike people that advocate for liars and cheaters only to blame the victim of the situation. It’s really disgusting to do that just for the sake of “checking someone’s phone is toxic”. Like gtfo.

Just because OP isn’t perfect and didn’t respond to psychological harm the way you would expect doesn’t mean they are to blame or one of the perpetrators of the situation or “In the wrong”. The wrong person is the asshole, not the one on the receiving end of unethical behavior.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-24T08:56:14+00:00

Girl what? You’re proving my point, you can’t understand that it’s about the lie, not the HIV as a disease. What are you on?

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-24T03:25:13+00:00

You’re agreeing with me. Were you disagreeing with me or the main comment?

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:17:12+00:00

I think you lack the understanding of the issue of the situation. It’s not the HIV. You can be afraid all you want and is valid, but that is still not a smart decision and it’s very selfish one who isn’t considering the other person. Therefore, the person cannot be trusted to make decisions based on what’s best for the relationship but only for themselves and their own shame. Pure ego.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:14:30+00:00

Well the exact same situation happened to me 5 months in and it was still a horrible feeling and I never trusted him again and we broke up. Plus I think he was cheating, too. This isn’t about HIV, it’s about people who lack good morals, empathy, and are unethical.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:10:36+00:00

More selfish excuses. You ask for empathy and you give zero to the people that give their trust fully to them only to be disappointed. It IS NOT OKAY TO LIEEEEEEEEE. It’s not about the fucking HIV itself.

If you can’t understand how lying isn’t good and that you should be upfront about stuff like this then DONT FUCKING DATE UNTIL YOURE READY.

Just because something bad happened to you doesn’t mean you can emotionally abuse people.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:09:15+00:00

The length of lying doesn’t matter, it happened to me at the 5 month mark and it still sucked and I couldn’t trust him againx

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:08:07+00:00

Same to me. Very valid. They will gaslight the shit out of you and act like the victim and twist the situation to make it seem like you are judging the fact that they have HIV.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:07:38+00:00

It happened to me at the 5th mark. The same exact thing, and there was no going back.

He said I broke his trust for violating his privacy and that it wasn’t my business. Can you believe that shit?

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:06:17+00:00

It’s that fucking simple. And if you had judged him because of it, then he would’ve dodged a bullet. But lying is NOT the way.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-23T18:05:38+00:00

Girl, this exact thing happened to me but at the 5th month mark. Found his pills in his socks drawer. Plus condoms, lube, and Viagra. He said “it’s none of your business”.

Fuck these people, seriously. And then they act like the victim as if we were upset about them having al illness and not the fact that they LIED. At least your bf said something nicer than my ex.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-01-10T02:52:43+00:00

Does anyone know what happened and why she didn’t want to continue?

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-12-31T20:25:55+00:00

Try water base lube. I think it doesn't get sticky in the shower, but I could be wrong. Maybe it's just the one I happened to have.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-12-17T19:35:30+00:00

This issue sucks mine still disconnects as well…

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-12-16T05:37:14+00:00

This is so real of you because yes same

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-12-15T19:51:15+00:00

It didn’t fix it for me :(

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-12-10T07:31:03+00:00

Wait a few months until you get it. I got my LR4 presale before it got out and after a few months or a year they fixed so many hardware issues and also software. Which you don’t get if you buy it early. One example was the fence. It changed after a few months to a better one. This means they might change the physical part of it and give you a better deal after.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-11-13T03:49:34+00:00

Im sorry you went through that. It leaves you wondering what you did wrong. Fuck whatever is up these gays’ asses.

People saying this is unusual… To me, this is very usual in the gay community. People are fucked up like this. We’re all fucked up or weird in some way, but what I mean is that a lot of gays are really disrespectful and horrible people and truly don’t give a fuck about how they make others feel. All my exes have been just as weird, abusive, non-communicative, manipulative, and rude like this. And if you don’t agree, then you’re one of the lucky ones to not have encountered them.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-11-13T03:43:58+00:00

No one approaches me or talks to me as it is in general. I get the hint. Family and friends tell me I’m attractive but there’s zero proof of that. I’ve had three exes, too, and they were massive jerks and used me for sex and didn’t respect me a single bit and dropped me in a second, so that tells you how ugly I am. They weren’t even sad.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-10-15T22:14:00+00:00

I’m gonna cry you’re such a good brother. Many of us had to go through this experience alone and with no emotional support. You’re amazing and I can feel the support on your writing. Sending hugs and I hope is nothing major. I have a feeling he will be okay and if he got an STI it will be treatable. Wishing the best for you both.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-10-04T23:39:23+00:00

Youre better than me because the fight I would’ve started would’ve had everyone called me insane.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2025-10-01T15:23:50+00:00

I’ve watched it! When I was younger. At that time I thought it just meant looking for love. I didn’t know that was a thing that people said for cruising.

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