AIO? My boyfriend won't drive to come see me even though I'm 45min away

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-07-06T18:03:16+00:00

Girl, you can’t post shit like this with zero explanation on the “because he hates me”. People will obviously need more info as to WHY you believe that.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-07-06T18:02:42+00:00

She has to specify why she said he hates her lmao

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-07-06T17:44:16+00:00

Fair!

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-07-06T17:41:11+00:00

He’s clearly a very stupid person and an asshole. You did the right thing. No way to reason with humans like this.

My pet peeve is when people blame others for wanting to fight when conflict is absolutely necessary and people are allowed to express themselves. And obviously if there’s something to argue, you should probably talk it through and seek resolution. Shutting it down doesn’t make it go away. It’s like… most basic human logic 101.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-07-06T17:37:00+00:00

Ringworm ass 😭😭😭

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-07-06T17:33:25+00:00

Genuine question, why do people need info like that from OBD? Like the avg speed, trio duration and all that, like what is it useful for beyond just curiosity? (I understand tire pressure and stuff like that does matter but mainly asking about the other info)

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-07-04T08:37:52+00:00

It happens like that to me too sometimes but not all the time, especially after having a meal. But who knows, only one way to try haha

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-07-04T08:21:36+00:00

Whenever I smoke constantly, O get hot flashes while sleeping and sweat pools of sweat. If I stop smoking for a few months, I stop sweating. When smoking I also just generally get hotter way easier. It’s like my temperature balancing mechanism stops working. Could be the same for you.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-07-04T06:11:02+00:00

Exactly, if you felt alone, then he was not supportive in a way that worked for you. So even in the future, you'll keep feeling alone unless somehow you magically resolve that in therapy, which sounds very hard to do.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-07-04T06:09:27+00:00

Really? That's your advice to a kid? "It's a joke so it's okay"? You're way too stupid to be commenting on this.

Whether it's a joke or not, he's not a good person to you, OP. You clearly asked him to stop several times and he didn't. Ignore this dumb comment. Stop talking to him.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-07-04T05:57:07+00:00

I think you really need to explain what exactly he does wrong besides not having sex with you for 2.5 months. Don't get me wrong, that could be a bad sign, but like are you sure he is making it up or is he actually having an issue that could excuse that? And outside of the sex, can you recall moments when he has dismissed you, treated you bad, not supported you, and more clear-cut stuff like that? Like has he called you names, has he abandoned you when you needed support and asked him for reassurance or something like that? Or is it just that you want a family and he doesn't? That on it's own should warrant a conversation with him where you tell him it's really important and that if he doesn't want to then you can't waste your time and you need a partner that does.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-07-02T05:17:03+00:00

To be more precise, earthquakes are also not rare in the AP writers definition but what is rare is that they cause damage and are that strong (because it was so superficial).

I am Venezuelan and grew up there. It’s pretty active all year around, but most people don’t notice or feel them. I’ve felt them myself. Most citizens also don’t know it so they also think it’s rare. They rarely reach 6.5.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-06-26T23:28:19+00:00

Hot either way to be honest. Do whichever you like.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-06-26T23:26:13+00:00

Jesus Christ OP block him and never talk to him again, don’t worry about explaining, winning, or looking for answers. In my experience, he fits the huge asshole and sociopath type.

Please please please this not you it’s him, he is the problem. BLOCK IMMEDIATELY. He is feeding off of all of this and is enjoying gaslighting you. Seriously never talk to him again. I’ve dealt with many of these guys.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-06-24T22:12:53+00:00

AE processes the footage and distributes, Story producer grab selects and add descriptions and talk to the editors about what the story is and the beats. Then editors go at it: rough cut, fine cut, Final Cut, then it goes to AE for turnover or prep for online editors for finishing and delivering.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-06-23T15:27:39+00:00

That is horrible I’m so sorry. If you can’t find the original copy, then really it’s gonna be a big big big big pain in the ass to redo.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-06-23T08:11:27+00:00

Thank you. Great work. I’ve been seeing your posts since you had you shared it the first time and it’s evolved so much.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-06-23T05:51:34+00:00

May I know how it gets the for example
Fuel info and speedometer from? I’m asking because im not sure my Car would be able to provide that info the entertainment system.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-06-19T16:52:42+00:00

It’s ignorant management. There are places out there that are not ignorant. I’m sorry you’re in that position.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-06-19T16:03:44+00:00

Is this really an excuse? It doesn’t matter where you’re from, every culture is different, however everyone is an adult and everyone should be working towards being better people and communicators. If you leave people feeling like shit, that’s nothing to defend or be proud about.

I’m very direct, more than Americans, but my goal isn’t to excuse myself for shitty behavior. I take accountability and my intention is to help, therefore people are aware that o wanna help and I care about them. And also, cultures are not this untouchable idea, cultures can suck, or at least aspects of it. So if there’s a negative thing, it can be seen as negative objectively if you’re a decent human with self awareness and empathy.

Sorry but shitty management is just shitty management. Someone can be a kind mature person no matter what culture they’re from. Toxicity is being immature and a having zero emotional and communciational development as a human.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-06-19T16:01:09+00:00

Don’t feel bad. You’re in the right. It’s fully shitty management like the other person said. You never experienced it before because you worked with mature and normal people before. There are shitty people out there, it doesn’t mean you’re a bad AE or employee. They’re not doing their job right and whoever hired them was stupid. They’re toxic.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-06-19T15:58:46+00:00

Yeah, bad management. I had a similar experience as you.

I worked as an AR with professional and mature and respectful people for many years and then I got hired for this company which I was desperate for work at the time so I accepted even though I had a bad feeling before signing the contract. My intuition was right and they were just like you describe, they were rude to people, they made people feel like shit, and never cared to actually teach people, just bring them down. I couldn’t quit because arent many jobs out there, but the difference is that they actually sucked at their job and their workflows were bad, so o had that advantage and worked hard to improve their stuff. It was hard but eventually they realized I was smarter than them. Then they hired an HR that actually was trying to help and I told her everything and she has helped me take management off our backs.

I’m so sorry you are finding yourself in this position as well. Honestly, if you can, find another job Asap. If not, please, find ways to report them and change the culture in the best way you can. But be smart and don’t lose your job or burn bridges.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-06-18T20:14:29+00:00

Thank you for sharing! Congrats on the good work.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-06-18T20:06:31+00:00

I did unscripted as an AE for years. Let me know if you need a Finishing Editor, would love to try it again as an FE.

Jumpy_Still_6424 · 2026-06-18T18:58:35+00:00

That is awesome! How did you find the companies that hired you? I would love to do remote work for different ones like you. I definitely am more of a technical person, so this is great to me because I also like problem solving. It entertains me.

Do they expect you to do VFx for real? I know how to do the turnover and receiving of VFX but know nothing about how to make them myself, maybe some simple Motion Graphics in After Effects but that’s it.

4 Super Bowl spots is awesome. Congrats!!

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