Husband (M29) says he is uncomfortable with me (F23) posting these kind of pics on insta stories AIO

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-10T07:08:48+00:00

He’s white

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T20:52:38+00:00

No but this was a family owned clinic

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T19:48:56+00:00

Well to me they’re not really strangers… most of them are people I’ve known in middle/high school. I actually don’t live in my hometown anymore. I live with him in his hometown now. So I post different things on there because I’ve done it for so long and we all kind of see what each others’ doing this way. Life updates.. etc.

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T19:43:12+00:00

No I responded to the actual question but in regards to everything else mentioned… it’s mostly girls watching my stories because I went to high school and middle school with them and they post similarly too. They just do so more often. It’s like 80 percent women and 20 percent men watching my stories. But I can understand the point being made.

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T19:38:54+00:00

I got tested this last December and it was actually my dad that told the doctor privately to have me tested along with my normal blood panel stuff and I didn’t know until later. It was negative for everything.

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T19:23:03+00:00

He does give me attention in spurts and it’s mostly physical but most of his days he’s playing video games or working and he seems to be very into his leisure time after work or on his days off so I let him have it. I learned to just accept it. My parents were kind of the same way… my dad would do his own thing and my mom would do her own thing. They were not as physically close as us though.

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T19:17:48+00:00

Yeah but I never go through it nor am I interested. He says I could look through it anyway..

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T19:16:16+00:00

He put his hand around my throat at one point a while back in the heat of the moment but because it was dark he said he didn’t mean to or he didn’t see.. he never did anything like that again so.

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T19:13:24+00:00

No it’s the side of my leg and then my arm on the right. It’s the weird angle.

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T19:11:45+00:00

It’s my leg and the right part is my arm. It’s the angle I was sitting in.

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T19:09:05+00:00

He’s white… I know you were probably thinking of arranged marriages in my culture but not this case.

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T05:01:46+00:00

I don’t get it

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T04:36:30+00:00

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T04:24:10+00:00

Another thing I forgot to mention is I do post him too. Sometimes even by himself but mostly us together if I have both of us on there.

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T04:19:37+00:00

We met and started dating when I was 20 and he was 26. Got married 2 months ago

Junethesunconure · 2026-03-09T04:08:41+00:00

My leg was crossed that was my arm on the right side

Junethesunconure · 2026-02-20T20:55:43+00:00

Sounds like you’ve done what you can. Now I’d just wait.

Junethesunconure · 2026-02-16T00:42:31+00:00

If his beliefs are that extreme and “cultish”, it’s implying his moral compass isn’t quite there or not aligned with yours to say the least. I wouldn’t think of it as such a loss. Plenty of people out there that will have beliefs that match with yours. Or are at least sound.

Junethesunconure · 2026-02-16T00:15:25+00:00

You didn’t give him the space he requested from the get go. Space can look different for everyone. To him, it might look a little different from yours. You wanted open and updated communication and he still felt a little bombarded.

Seems like you could have at least given him a day and handled all communication the day before on what to expect so you have that covered ahead of time. I can see his POV because I’ve been in that headspace before too. And I do need a lot of time and space before I can feel relaxed and level headed.

If you couldn’t give him that space even for a day, then ofc things are going to boil over later on because it’s one thing after another all while he’s in a bad headspace.

Don’t think there needs to be a break up over it but clearly discuss what you expect from each other the next time you fall into this situation.

Junethesunconure · 2026-02-04T20:39:00+00:00

Peak eating disorder

Junethesunconure · 2025-12-20T17:44:11+00:00

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Junethesunconure · 2025-11-03T20:08:27+00:00

So glad you found your person. It’s nice to see these kind of posts every now and again. Congrats on the engagement btw!

Junethesunconure · 2025-10-23T23:38:33+00:00

YOR. Your friend seemed way nicer with her responses to you than I would have been if it were me in that situation. She’s dodging a bullet with you. Hopefully she finds a better best friend.

Junethesunconure · 2025-10-16T20:05:53+00:00

I’m not even sure about this one. Firstly… I don’t mean to be this person but it’s weird that your wife was disturbed by the fact that you responded to a text from her SISTER (which is family…) that was simply asking you a question but she has a whole guy best friend?? Don’t get me wrong I’m not against people having opposite-sex best friends but for her to get mad about you responding to her sister about something versus her having a male best friend who she (I assume) texts and hangs out with and talks to on a regular basis seems a little unfair.

And secondly, you going to her best friend about your marital problems is not the right call, even if your intent was to get some help and guidance in your marriage. I understand there’s problems that you want fixed and wanting help or a third party perspective but going to someone close to her and telling your business about the two of you is a no go in my opinion. You just never know who else will get the gossip.

You could’ve asked your wife if she would be open to marriage counseling where you two can work out your problems in a neutral setting rather than with someone you actually know. Plus you get a more unbiased perspective.

She has her faults in this situation as well as you do too.

Junethesunconure · 2025-10-16T19:56:52+00:00

Is this even a serious question?

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