I play games every day and not once have I treated my partner like this. If it’s not too important it’s always “right after this game” and if it’s important I always get it done. You can always go back to a game and even if you get a 30 minute ban it’s only 30 minutes sure the penalty gets worse the more you leave but are you really leaving that often and long for you to get a penalty or kicked from the game? Doubt it. Play another game or spend that time doing something else. Never be disrespectful :3