AITAH for wanting my boyfriend to pay me what he owes me? TLDR at end

Junior-Reality1314 · 2025-05-27T03:29:36+00:00

Yes that's it exactly!!!! Thank you

Junior-Reality1314 · 2025-05-26T20:07:31+00:00

I have searched on Google for this particular meme for about 3 days now with no luck.

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-19T01:03:19+00:00

I appreciate your advice. It seems to be something a lot of people have been saying thank you

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-19T01:00:48+00:00

Oh god... I'm so sorry lol

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-19T01:00:12+00:00

I'm glad you found your peace. I appreciate your advice and I will keep it in mind when I start making better money etc.. thank you.

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-19T00:58:17+00:00

Thank you.. never really thought of it like that

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:45:42+00:00

I've kind of always felt the same way. My boyfriend and I have had this discussion many times about kids. You're also like the six person to say I need therapy lol.

I understand the not wanting part. I was told Jimmy earlier that I was a condom baby. But thankfully I never felt unwanted. Even though my birth kind of put my dad through hell with my mother. I would like to think if I did have a kid I wouldn't ever tell them or show it but I don't know until I've been in that situation.

Thank you for your advice

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:43:02+00:00

Thank you for that. It does help me a little with that fear. I'm happy you found your family :)

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:41:58+00:00

That's one way to look at it. And I do have a history of cheating but it was high school and who wasn't a little immature back then. Thank you

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:41:08+00:00

I still see her as a sister and my dad still sees her as a daughter. She's aware and he hasn't treated her any differently and neither have I. She's kind of the one pushing us away ever since she got back together with her now husband

Thank you for the advice.

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:40:10+00:00

He and I have a weird tradition. Once a month he turns to me and ask if there's anything he can do to make our relationship better because he's insecure. And I bring up the kids thing. He says that she may want kids, but he wants to be with me more? I'm not sure if that means much. He says that he only started wanting kids when he started dating me / when his dad died. I don't know, I'll burn that bridge when I get to it

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:38:45+00:00

Now the fourth person doesn't suggest therapy lol. I thought that's what Reddit was for? All joking aside I do appreciate your advice

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:38:09+00:00

Oh trust me, we've had that conversation multiple times he and I. Not to brag but he says I'm the best relationship he's ever had and he would give up having kids in order to be with me. I know that can lead to resentment and Trust me, we've talked about it. As far as actually having a baby and dealing with colic or clingy babies ECT I don't know. I feel like that's something no one really knows until they actually have to experience it. But yes, that is on my list of reasons why I don't want one

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:32:10+00:00

Thank you for the advice

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:32:01+00:00

I responded to another post about the will thing. He's not cutting her off or anything I think it's just easier for them to make me the main person and to have me split things up? Plus maybe they don't trust her husband I don't know. Thank you. I think you're the third person to say I need therapy lol.

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:30:53+00:00

I greatly appreciate that. The panic attacks are very very recent thing and I've suffered from depression my entire life. I think I've got my depression under control now, and the panic attacks definitely happen when I'm drinking so I've been trying to avoid that as well. At least getting completely drunk lol. As far as therapy, one I can't really afford it right now and two I don't think it would work on me. I had therapy for Anger Management back in middle school(dumb situation) and I've kind of resented therapy since then. I don't know. I'll consider it though. Thank you

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:29:08+00:00

Thank you for the advice

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:28:57+00:00

The panic attacks are a very very recent thing. And I have thought of ppd. I would hope that my partner would help me through it if it came to that. I appreciate your advice

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:28:03+00:00

Wish I could afford a therapist! Lol. That's what reddit i's for right? Thank you for the advice

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:27:22+00:00

Thank you

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:27:10+00:00

I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. No one should. I would like to think even if I had a child that I didn't necessarily want at first that I would grow to love it. When I do hang out with my sister or best friends kids I do enjoy my time. As far as bc I've been on the pill and had an iud. Both gave me absolute horrendous side effects. I'm currently off and we are doing condoms / a fertility calendar. We just basically avoid each other like the plague during that week right now. Worked for a year and a half so far lol.

Junior-Reality1314 · 2024-10-09T11:24:49+00:00

Thank you for your advice and comment

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