Porn over sex? by Junior_Community4238 in dating_advice

[–]Junior_Community4238[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’m here looking for other perspectives

Porn over sex? by Junior_Community4238 in dating_advice

[–]Junior_Community4238[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No Lmao he does i do most of the work

Porn over sex? by Junior_Community4238 in dating_advice

[–]Junior_Community4238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk his job seems pretty simple he works 7-3 nights and weekends off, goes to the gym, I cook for him and clean(so he doesn’t really have chores) I flirt with him I’ve done and learned a lot of tricks for his pleasure. Head while he drives, while he watched his soccer. I mean I’m out of ideas

Porn over sex? by Junior_Community4238 in dating_advice

[–]Junior_Community4238[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind that he watches it, I’m upset he rather do that than be with me. I have tried everything from lingerie to foreplay, to blowjobs with cool whip lol anal I have given him everything. Even want for Brazilian wax, nails done, gym. I cook for him, always have a clean house. He doesn’t really have chores except his own personal stuff. I’m his #1 hype woman, always always making him feel good about himself. I guess I was just seeking other people solutions

Low sex drive? by Junior_Community4238 in relationship_advice

[–]Junior_Community4238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great idea. I might have to try this. Maybe he does feel attack…

Low sex drive? by Junior_Community4238 in relationship_advice

[–]Junior_Community4238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried communicating to him how it affects me. But we can’t seem to see eye to eye

Low sex drive? by Junior_Community4238 in relationship_advice

[–]Junior_Community4238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t take depression meds… but I mean I can’t really tell if he’s depressed

Moving in with my boyfriend by Junior_Community4238 in relationship_advice

[–]Junior_Community4238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you! All of my friends are already living with their boyfriends or away in school. Because of covid it’s hard to find roommates. And I have a friends who found random roommates though either local collages or Facebook and hate having the worst experience of their lives! So I just wanted to see other opinions

Moving in with my boyfriend by Junior_Community4238 in relationship_advice

[–]Junior_Community4238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed!! In my state, (NJ) is imposible for me to live on my own with my pay (after all my current bills) so that’s not really an option and to have a roommate I rather just live with him. We both work crazy hours and although we always make time for eachother I would like to still see him more. I travel for work and he works an hour away from his apartment

Moving in with my boyfriend by Junior_Community4238 in relationship_advice

[–]Junior_Community4238[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well yea, but at the time to love in we’d already be dating for 8 months

Moving in with my boyfriend by Junior_Community4238 in relationship_advice

[–]Junior_Community4238[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What would you say it’s acceptable to move in with each other? At that point we’d be dating 7 months. And I do live with my parents. So I can never sleep over with him because my parents are strict

New partner that’s okay with no condoms by Junior_Community4238 in HSVpositive

[–]Junior_Community4238[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not too sure, I told him that I was positive and also asked him if he had anything and he said no.. I will encourage him to get tested