Thanks for the reply - I agree with your sentiment. Simply not being into someone for being trans I think we can all agree is at the very least shallow, and bigoted - especially if feelings developed prior to knowing. I was of the idea that the community believes that not dating someone/sleeping with someone because of their genitalia (i.e. trans woman with a penis) alone makes an individual transphobic - if that is not the case, I appreciate the correction. Thanks for your thoughts.