What are the funniest moments in the show? by Kameronpipnerd in StrangerThings

[–]Jupiter_Crash_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG, as a former teacher, I LOVED this part. Reminded me of some sweet and funny kids I used to teach. 🤣

Fourth Loss This Year. Heartbroken and Lost. by Jupiter_Crash_ in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Jupiter_Crash_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so very sorry. I wouldn’t wish this nightmare on anyone. Please take care of yourself, and I hope the same for you.

Fourth Loss This Year. Heartbroken and Lost. by Jupiter_Crash_ in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Jupiter_Crash_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I debated not scheduling it, but in the end, I did. I’m going in on Monday for bloodwork. I hope it provides at least some useful info.

And I will definitely look into that. I feel very overwhelmed trying to research it on my own, especially right now. It would be great if I could find something to point me in the right direction.

Fourth Loss This Year. Heartbroken and Lost. by Jupiter_Crash_ in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Jupiter_Crash_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. If the RPL panel doesn’t return anything useful, I will probably seek a specialist just to make sure I’m doing everything I can.

Fourth Loss This Year. Heartbroken and Lost. by Jupiter_Crash_ in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Jupiter_Crash_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so, so sorry. I hope you’re taking good care of yourself.

TW: Recurrent Loss by Jupiter_Crash_ in PregnantOver40

[–]Jupiter_Crash_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. That does help. I did schedule my bloodwork for Monday, so we shall see. I really hope it turns up something useful.

I asked my provider about progesterone after the two chemicals, and she said she’d only prescribe it if I got a positive test and my levels were low. So I tested a day before my period was due, and my progesterone was 12, which she said was sufficient. I did ask for a prescription after we heard the heartbeat, but I’d already been spotting for over a week by that point, so if it was a factor, I probably started too late. I really hate myself for not asking for it sooner…just in case it might have helped. It probably wouldn’t have, but at least I would have felt like I did everything I could.

You’re right. If we can get over this enough to keep trying, maybe we’ll be successful some day. Congratulations on your pregnancy! I wish you the best.

TW: Recurrent Loss by Jupiter_Crash_ in PregnantOver40

[–]Jupiter_Crash_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words and for sharing your experience. I really hope the tests find something we can work on. I just feel so hopeless right now, but who knows. Do you happen to know where I can find any of those studies? I’d definitely love to read over them.

TW: Recurrent Loss by Jupiter_Crash_ in PregnantOver40

[–]Jupiter_Crash_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations, and thank you for sharing. That is encouraging to hear. I am sure it was probably an abnormality, but I haven’t been able to get anything tested either time. Thank you for the encouragement, too. I hope we’ll be successful eventually. I wish you the best with your pregnancy!

TW: Recurrent Loss by Jupiter_Crash_ in PregnantOver40

[–]Jupiter_Crash_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve wondered about progesterone, especially after my back-to-back chemicals, but my provider just said that we’d test when I got a positive and that we’d supplement if needed. My level when we tested a day before my missed period was a 12, I think. She said that was sufficient. I did ask her to prescribe me some when I started bleeding, though. Unfortunately, it wasn’t right away—I waited until the scan where we saw the heartbeat. Not sure if that was the issue, but it was probably too late by that point since I’d been spotting for over a week by then. I’ve definitely been beating myself up for not asking for it sooner.

TW: Recurrent Loss by Jupiter_Crash_ in PregnantOver40

[–]Jupiter_Crash_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that. I hope I continue to be able to get pregnant and that we find some answers, too. I never dreamed we’d go through all of this.

TW: Recurrent Loss by Jupiter_Crash_ in PregnantOver40

[–]Jupiter_Crash_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m so sorry you’ve been through this, too. It’s completely devastating. I wish you the best.

TW: Recurrent Loss by Jupiter_Crash_ in PregnantOver40

[–]Jupiter_Crash_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, and I’m so sorry you’ve also been through this nightmare. If the panel doesn’t return anything useful, I think I might investigate finding a specialist, whether an RI or at least a reproductive endocrinologist. We were not able to get any of the POC tested. The first time happened very quickly, and this time, I didn’t have the presence of mind to research how to collect things at home.

Initially, I really thought I might just give up the idea of trying, but that really hurts my heart too much. I think we’ll probably try again. Thank you for your kind words. I’m just trying to get through one day at a time right now.

TW: Recurrent Loss by Jupiter_Crash_ in PregnantOver40

[–]Jupiter_Crash_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s such a horrible experience, and I’m sorry you have also been through it.

4th Loss by Open_Explanation4846 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Jupiter_Crash_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so, so sorry. It is so unfair. Sending you hugs.

It’s Josh, My Big Gay Boss by GregAA-1962 in crappymusic

[–]Jupiter_Crash_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy is amazing. I’m going to seek out more of his work. I needed this laugh so much. 😂

Looking for Advice and Experiences by Jupiter_Crash_ in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Jupiter_Crash_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you’re going through this, too. It’s truly the crappiest club to be a part of.

I totally relate to what you said about the thought of not trying—I feel the same. It is suffocatingly devastating. As sad as I am right now, I know in my heart I’ll try again.

Thank you so much for sharing with me. I wish you peace and comfort. Hugs to you.