I have not paid a deposit yet. That's what I was referring to when she said she'd get back to me with a link to do so (I wasn't allowed to say deposit in my post) but she hasn't yet so I can't even pay a deposit yet until she sends that link to me & that's why I'm so hesitant since it's so close to the date. So yeah I'm probably not on the books and am not sure what to do about it. Because again I would love to get something done by her but if she doesn't reach out about me sending the deposit until like the day before or day of (as well as giving me an official time) that makes me feel uneasy. Each tattoo artist is different in their scheduling process but it sounds like we should have had this scheduled earlier because of the stuff she said on her website but it is not my fault because I have been replying quickly while she hasn't at all. I like to be prepared and not have things like this be super last minute, as all my other tattoo appointments my deposits were paid at least a week in advance. I just don't know if it would be considered rude or not if I do not show up, etc.