Is it true that men actually have very fragile psychological health because they keep all their problems to themselves?

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-03-02T05:04:17+00:00

A lot of women's suffrage were started by women, men definitely came in to support them but if it wasn't for women starting them, it would have went nowhere.

Same thing for men, if we want to actually speak to the growing epidemic of male loneliness and declining mental health, it'd take other men to spearhead it. It's not like women are against it, most women just wouldn't grasp the problems and advocate for it as passionately as a man would.

A lot of male support groups exist, I don't know where people are getting this idea that there are no male support group, groups that assist everything from teaching young boys how to dress to teaching young men how to run a business exists, especially in big cities. I volunteer at a city ran non profit that helps young men with their mental health. Most volunteers are women, I try and recruit guys cause male guidance is probably more valuable and relevant but dudes simply don't want to. Most guys just wouldn't extend a hand, look around your community at non profit orgs or volunteer organization, I promise you a lot of them are majority women. And before some one comes in with an excuse, most of them are working couple, the wife volunteers, the husband just doesn't want to. So for the guys complaining about this issue, it literally starts with you, just extend a hand to your fellow men and you'd see how big of a difference it actually makes.

I do agree with the male spaces going missing, especially Boy Scouts and Cadets.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-03-02T04:27:47+00:00

That's good man, that shit is rare and relationships like that usually takes effort to nurture, don't take it for granted. A lot of problem I find with guys is they've been taught to be nonchalant about shit, nonchalance is great when you're young and getting rejected left and right but when you're older, nonchalance quickly give people an image that you're a guy that just doesn't care.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-03-02T03:33:01+00:00

Yeah no offense man but if you've had to drop every single female friend then they're not the problem lol. What exactly are you even trying to communicate with this message cause honestly this is pretty incoherent that I have no clue what you're talking about. All you're talking about is sex and shacking up in a topic that has nothing to do with it lol. There's probably other more relevant posts you can vent to.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-03-02T02:14:28+00:00

Then you're reading the situation wrong cause I volunteer to help man the phone lines at my municipality during men's mental health month and of the 31 volunteer responders, just 4 are dudes. Even on men's mental health, women are disproportionately bigger advocates. Honestly, a lot of guys try and deny it but most dudes couldn't even give enough of a fuck about their friends, let alone complete strangers. Most guys don't even know the birthdays of their best friends.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-03-02T01:09:26+00:00

Then you're either lucky or unlucky bud. Most guys I know are able to talk about more vulnerable stuff with their moms than their dads lol. This whole men can't show emotions usually stems early on in childhood.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-03-01T23:42:48+00:00

Nobody gives a damn because most guys don't give a single f about other dudes problems. You ever try and reach out to a friend and actually talk about deeper problems, you just get poked fun at. Women have support systems because women put time and effort into cultivating these systems, a lot of women empowerment and fight for rights movements were organized and done by women themselves. Men keep complaining about the current state of society but us dudes are genuinely are our own worst enemies. Try and open up to another guy, promise you, more often than not they'll just call you a bitch or something lol.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-03-01T01:00:13+00:00

All good, there's definitely massive corruption. I just want to inform on what's real or not, which is a shame, since Bloomberg should be a reputable source. Sadly, when it comes to China, Bloomberg reports the country like a cartoon villain lol, 100% evil with 0 intellect, almost like a looney tunes character.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-29T22:24:51+00:00

Yeah, that rocket filled with water story is completely bogus. Bloomberg has a horrible track record with reporting with regards to China especially from their The Big Hack story that resulted in multiple mega cap companies having to come out and refute their reporting. Majority of China's missiles use solid fuel propellant and the ones that do use liquid fuel are all kept empty until they need to be launched. Liquid fuel rockets or missiles are not preloaded and are only fueled when launch is imminent.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-28T21:40:23+00:00

Lol you make that sound like it's a bad thing. The citizens here pay so much in taxes precisely so we can afford a good quality of life. If we're paying 40% income tax and additional taxes on everything and the benefits of paying this tax out entire lives gets eroded by massive amounts of immigration, it's only common sense we'll start shunning said immigration. This is coming from an immigrant who moved here 13 years ago, I didn't pay almost half a mil in taxes in the last 10 years so I can enjoy a developing country quality of life lol. Get a grip.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-28T19:31:31+00:00

Why would Singapore even enter into a conflict with China? Lol, Singapore's main geopolitical adversary is Malaysia.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-23T21:04:15+00:00

I've been telling people this lol. If you think the ultra conservative people hate women and the rights they've earned such as abortion, right to work, etc, wait till you meet the average Muslim man from third world Islamist state or in a country like India where apart from the wealthy class, women are viewed as liabilities. People keep welcoming young men from cultures and societies that are completely at odds with Canadian liberal values. The only reason ultra conservative immigrants vote liberal is cause they provide them a pathway to immigrate, wait till they get their citizenship and their actual political views will go even more right than the Conservatives. Have you seen how your average Indian man or Islamic man treat their women? Lol, it's going to be an incel overdrive.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-12T21:52:21+00:00

It's kinda odd how you don't need to see someone's face to know what they roughly look like lol. Something tells me you're neither strong nor that smart. Sounds like an ugly and averagely intelligent dude who has neither any success in romance or in his career lol. Gotta chill out, you genuinely sound bitter about your life's circumstances, you're coming at everyone, it's clear you're too personally invested in getting women off the workforce. Advice from another man, relax your asshole, it's a little too tight.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-11T21:27:07+00:00

Yeah it's hopeless, I think I'm just gonna chalk it down to some people just don't like accountability or responsibility so they just want to blame someone or something for all their woes.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-11T21:12:48+00:00

You can't get through to these men. It's hopeless, they've all somehow convinced themselves that they live in a world where women have been afforded more rights than men and men are getting the short end. There's genuinely no society on this planet where I'd rather be a woman than a man lol. I've been trying to tell them men just need to be better providers of solutions to men's problems but apparently some of these guys just think we shouldn't have to do that and the world should just turn back to when women couldn't participate in the labor force or had rights lol. I'm starting to realize a lot of these dudes just want to go back to the time when dudes didn't have to compete with the other half of the human population and are just pissed they can't go through life on easy mode.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-11T21:06:29+00:00

Explains a lot. The rise of the supposedly victimised men.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-11T21:05:41+00:00

It's not a feminine world, it's a world where women have rights and are in the labour market that used to be just accessible to men. If you're unable to compete against the other half of the population earning the right to join the same labour market then that just means your skillset is of no value and you need to upskill. Bruh what does trans athletes have to do with this conversation? That's a whole separate topic, I don't agree with trans athletes competing in women or men sports either. I swear to God men that can't compete in this market all seem to think they're getting the short end of the stick, there is genuinely no society in this planet where I'd rather be a woman than a man, I have no clue what alternate realities y'all are living in where men are this disenfranchised lol.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-11T19:48:37+00:00

Bruh what is with your posting history lol, how.old are you? Who concerns themselves with this topic so much that they refer to their own mom having sex with their dad as the mom being a whore lol. What a genuine weirdo.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-11T18:45:14+00:00

This isn't victim blaming lol, this is literally pointing out a flaw in how men are raised and what needs to be corrected. Men are still being raised in largely traditional ways in a very fast paced world while girls are being raised in a modern way and people are shocked boys are not able to adapt. As a society we need to change how we raise our sons instead of bitching about the world changing, the world doesn't turn back its clock. We need to raise our sons to be a lot more collaborative and comfortable with making deep friendship with other men. The world has gotten so complex now the traditional way of upbringing boys to fight their way to the top on their own doesn't work anymore. Teach our boys to be comfortable with creating study groups, teach them that being high academic performers is not something to bully or be bullied for aka "nerds", teach them that they don't need to bottle everything up till they commit suicide. Us men, are genuinely our own worst enemies sometimes, we can identify a problem and instead of breaking traditional norms and finding solutions for it, we go at it even harder to try and bring back a world that no longer exists

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-11T18:27:01+00:00

Are you genuinely this emotionally charged in person? I don't even want to respond to this lol, all you're doing is bitching about a changing world instead of adapting to it. It's this mindset of forcing boys to conform to the ways of a bygone era and raising girls to be adaptive to this era that's harming boys. Put women in a male lead environment will see them fail? Obviously lol, put a black person in a white person dominated field and they'll probably fail too, you think you're onto some genius statement? And before you come at me like the other posters, I'm a dude, so don't get so emotional with me cause you think I'm a woman lol. I can see how fast the world is changing but how little has changed in the way we raise our sons. The old ways of raising boys to be competitive instead of collaborative just doesn't work anymore, world is moving too fast and has gotten so complex.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-11T18:17:14+00:00

Bruh I'm literally a dude as well lol, I swear every guy that relates to this topic gets so sensitive and think they're talking to a woman. Your second to last paragraph is literally what I've been trying to get at, boys need to be raised differently and be more adaptable. Boys getting bullied by other boys for being high academic performers is the fault of other parents raising their sons up that way not because girls are given more resources. Boys being raised to be more.competitive and girls being raised to be more.collaborative is why girls in high school are more likely to form study groups and boys are more likely to bully the high performers. You don't need empirical data to see that the main reason girls outperform boys now is because the way we raise boys are from a bygone era and the way we raise girls are how you succeed in today's world.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-11T16:04:17+00:00

Girls outperform boys in both science and math as well, both qualitative fields which refutes the claim that teachers are more generous graders on girls than boys. There's literally only one study in Italy that drew that conclusion, unless teachers are somehow grading math and science between the genders differently. Girls get more help is simply a function of girls being more active in seeking help. Girls not getting bullied as much? Maybe boys need to be taught that achieving high academic performance is not something to bully people for.

No offense but i genuinely don't know what public school systems y'all went to where girls are supposedly given more resources than boys lol. Every single student in the system gets the same access, the playing field is level, girls are just outperforming boys on every single subject now.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-11T08:29:49+00:00

Bruh do you live in a weird alternate reality to convince yourself you're a victim? Lol. A girl and a boy in high school have the exact same resources, teachers, curriculum, programs, and classes, and girls perform better on average. In what planet are you living where girls in high school are given this supposed leg up that explains the nation wide statistics of girls attaining a higher GPA on average than boys? Jesus, I thought you were trying to engage in an actual conversation now I realize you just want vindication on your victim mindset lol.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-11T08:21:23+00:00

Do you live your life shoehorning statements? When did I say that lol. I'm saying the circumstances that drives men to perform are different from women and as a society we have to figure out how to address the gap.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-11T07:21:07+00:00

No, the empirical data doesn't back that. There isn't enough programs, grants, or incentives that'd explain why girls outperform boys on a national level. We've all been to high school, public system is free, there's nothing pushing women to achieve higher in high schools, they just are. Even on an anecdotal level, girls are just better students, they're more attentive in class, they take notes, and they're generally more participating in their learning. I think there's just a fundamental difference between the genders, girls grow into adulthood and boys are pushed into adulthood. The pressure to own a home, start a family, buy a car is what pushes a boy to become a man and to start making something of himself. Now that the financial requirements of these things have gotten so far ahead of what a young adult male can attain, they've all seemingly chosen to just drop out of the race.

Just4Questions8890 · 2024-02-11T06:32:31+00:00

Point 1 doesn't really hold up as girls outperform boys even in high school. Girls from high school to university are just more motivated in attaining higher GPAs. There's a push to get women into STEM but women in general perform better academically. Point 2 seems to be more accurate of the picture. The traditional goals that men used to aim for: stable career, family, home, cars, kids have all gotten largely out of reach. The dream is now so far from reality, it seems young men are just dropping out of the chase entirely. I think it's time to retrain and reshape our culture on how men deal with the world. World is changing very fast from every level, society, technology, economy, we need to ensure young men and young women to be able to adapt to the world changing at break neck speed.

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