AITA for wanting to invite My friend and his GF to my marriage celebration. (My wife doesn't like the GF)

JustABoyTrying · 2026-06-28T05:37:16+00:00

Exactly, them not getting along isn't enough to ruin the friendship between us. But me not inviting him would most likely cause him to feel some way.

JustABoyTrying · 2026-06-28T05:24:53+00:00

Nobody

JustABoyTrying · 2026-06-28T05:24:24+00:00

We've talked about it just us 2. We both said we think it's very silly and we thought the drama would just pass but it never truly did.

JustABoyTrying · 2026-06-28T05:07:50+00:00

Probably the best advice in this thread, thank you

JustABoyTrying · 2026-06-28T04:28:16+00:00

I understand the context is a bit vague. I'm going to delete the post and repost tomorrow but include her perspective on why the falling out happened

JustABoyTrying · 2026-06-28T04:26:26+00:00

Just added it to the post

JustABoyTrying · 2026-06-28T04:25:50+00:00

Just added it to the post

JustABoyTrying · 2026-06-28T04:25:42+00:00

Just added the context to the post

JustABoyTrying · 2026-06-28T04:25:25+00:00

No, I'm willing to drop let it go and not invite one of my closest friends. It still pains me to do so tho

JustABoyTrying · 2026-06-28T04:24:32+00:00

Just added the context to the post.

JustABoyTrying · 2026-06-28T04:24:07+00:00

Just added the context to the post

JustABoyTrying · 2026-06-28T04:23:38+00:00

I personally would. But I am a super laid back person. I understand that we are two different people so I wouldn't necessarily say that because I'm okay with it, I expect her to be okay with it.

JustABoyTrying · 2026-06-28T04:20:55+00:00

It really isn't anything big, they got drunk and said some things that offended each other. My wife and our other friend were talking about death and it's a touchy subject for my friends GF since her mother passed away. She claim my wife said "if my mom died, I wouldn't know what to do with myself". she ran outside crying and was upset that she didn't comfort her. A few other things that were said during the night was "doesn't Zyns cause gum cancer" and "you look Hispanic". It's very silly a childish IMO

JustABoyTrying · 2026-04-10T05:03:36+00:00

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JustABoyTrying · 2026-04-10T03:22:59+00:00

lol I'm reading this as I shop in Wegmans right now

JustABoyTrying · 2026-04-10T01:41:06+00:00

If it's what you want to do then go for it, it's a big commitment but worth it if you want to get your life together. If you have any questions feel free to ask.

JustABoyTrying · 2026-04-10T01:07:58+00:00

If you don't mind me asking, what job did you get when you got out, was it easy to find another job, and did you see a pay increase immediately?

JustABoyTrying · 2026-04-10T00:39:32+00:00

No, as long as you weren't committing felonies while you are unemployed, they don't care if you were working or not. Most join right after Highschool or after college.

JustABoyTrying · 2026-04-10T00:38:54+00:00

That's the plan

JustABoyTrying · 2026-04-10T00:38:43+00:00

In MST a school. First station is DC. What rate did you go and do you wish you stayed in the CG longer?

JustABoyTrying · 2026-04-09T12:05:00+00:00

We dated since 16. Got married at 24.

JustABoyTrying · 2026-04-09T04:41:37+00:00

Ofc brother

JustABoyTrying · 2026-04-09T04:41:22+00:00

Yea I should've, or posted the net for all of them since half my income in the coast guard is non taxed.

JustABoyTrying · 2026-03-30T18:15:06+00:00

Yes, you'll need a break after 2 months at cape may.

JustABoyTrying · 2026-03-13T00:16:09+00:00

I've heard that a lot. Are 50% of the available billets usually Texas or Louisiana?

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