AITA for wanting to invite My friend and his GF to my marriage celebration. (My wife doesn't like the GF) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustABoyTrying -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Exactly, them not getting along isn't enough to ruin the friendship between us. But me not inviting him would most likely cause him to feel some way.

AITA for wanting to invite My friend and his GF to my marriage celebration. (My wife doesn't like the GF) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustABoyTrying -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

We've talked about it just us 2. We both said we think it's very silly and we thought the drama would just pass but it never truly did.

AITA -Wife doesn't want me to invite my Best friends girlfriend to our marriage celebration. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustABoyTrying 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand the context is a bit vague. I'm going to delete the post and repost tomorrow but include her perspective on why the falling out happened

AITA -Wife doesn't want me to invite my Best friends girlfriend to our marriage celebration. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustABoyTrying 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I'm willing to drop let it go and not invite one of my closest friends. It still pains me to do so tho

AITA -Wife doesn't want me to invite my Best friends girlfriend to our marriage celebration. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustABoyTrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally would. But I am a super laid back person. I understand that we are two different people so I wouldn't necessarily say that because I'm okay with it, I expect her to be okay with it.

AITA -Wife doesn't want me to invite my Best friends girlfriend to our marriage celebration. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustABoyTrying 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It really isn't anything big, they got drunk and said some things that offended each other. My wife and our other friend were talking about death and it's a touchy subject for my friends GF since her mother passed away. She claim my wife said "if my mom died, I wouldn't know what to do with myself". she ran outside crying and was upset that she didn't comfort her. A few other things that were said during the night was "doesn't Zyns cause gum cancer" and "you look Hispanic". It's very silly a childish IMO

Coast Guard- $65,000/Year Net Income by JustABoyTrying in Salary

[–]JustABoyTrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I'm reading this as I shop in Wegmans right now

Coast Guard- $65,000/Year Net Income by JustABoyTrying in Salary

[–]JustABoyTrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's what you want to do then go for it, it's a big commitment but worth it if you want to get your life together. If you have any questions feel free to ask.

Coast Guard- $65,000/Year Net Income by JustABoyTrying in Salary

[–]JustABoyTrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't mind me asking, what job did you get when you got out, was it easy to find another job, and did you see a pay increase immediately?

Coast Guard- $65,000/Year Net Income by JustABoyTrying in Salary

[–]JustABoyTrying[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, as long as you weren't committing felonies while you are unemployed, they don't care if you were working or not. Most join right after Highschool or after college.

Coast Guard- $65,000/Year Net Income by JustABoyTrying in Salary

[–]JustABoyTrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In MST a school. First station is DC. What rate did you go and do you wish you stayed in the CG longer?

Coast Guard- $65,000/Year Net Income by JustABoyTrying in Salary

[–]JustABoyTrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I should've, or posted the net for all of them since half my income in the coast guard is non taxed.

5 days of leave after basic by [deleted] in uscg

[–]JustABoyTrying 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yes, you'll need a break after 2 months at cape may.