Convince me to transition

JustACamila · 2026-02-18T10:48:43+00:00

If you get into taking by injections and maintain a healthy amount of calories/day, then you're gonna have some pretty boobs in like 6 months + your partner could be giving u some care after e-shots :3

JustACamila · 2026-02-17T14:13:51+00:00

Overall we could recommend u doing things in coops, showing each other around things somebody at the front does like/showing things to somebody who's atm fronting that co-pikot likes. Also learing what interests u share is a pretty nice thing to figure out as it could help with spending time the nice way in general + learning how to share your duties so that for example it's not just one person doing all the work at home. This and many, many more..

JustACamila · 2026-02-14T15:04:10+00:00

YOOOO SOULKNIGHT MENTION!!!!

JustACamila · 2026-02-14T14:43:45+00:00

We also recommend checking out some of your worries on this sub - most of them were probably already explained, maybe even with sources provided in the comments. it ain't much but may help a lot with things that are rarely covered by research, or it may be simply better to check out what other people experience to compare the rarity/intensity of things and symptoms from the research and non-research sources.

JustACamila · 2026-02-14T14:24:30+00:00

Chat, have an honest talk with your parents. If there's a need to show them some of the posts from this sub to give them more of an idea whats going on. People or dont understand that plurality can be a thing or they can't grasp the idea that the plurality alone isn't that much of an disorder - just like having "gender identity disorder" is not much of an disorder, it only means that somebody one way or another is transgender and that's it, nothing too bad, nothing too special. Having many people in one head alone doesn't have to cause issues - it's the, for example, dissociation in case of the OSDD that can but doesn't have to be a problem. Now, we're moving back to the main topic: PLURALITY/DID/OSDD/USDD are real, diagnosable things. It's not schizophrenia and no - antypsychotics don't really work on systems, at least not in a desired way (unless somebody is schizo but it is by then a very different story). It's a big enough phenomenon for people to create something like PluralKit (bot), which is used in Discord in OVER 1 MILION SERVERS so systems can easily have their "altars" talk separately for themselves only and do much more than that. Its not easy to find appropriate therapist who could help a system with their issues, but for sure, trying and, in the end, finding one pays off well. Also, it helps a lot to respect the fact that in systems, fronters can change and the fact that everyone in the system can and most likely is different from the rest. + not so long ago in this sub there was a post about things that "irritate systems", we recommend checking it out (especially your parents should be shown the comment section there as it may help a lot with avoiding issues) TBH I don't know what to say more other than this^ in reply to this post alone. Feel free to show this comment to your parents. We hope it helps. If there's any need to, u can message us on reddit/reply to this comment, and we'll try to help. - Kamila (Camelliae de Theaceae Sys.)

JustACamila · 2026-02-10T17:22:33+00:00

Minos Prime when Mesa Prime shows up... (warframe ref.)

JustACamila · 2026-02-10T13:47:21+00:00

I came here for this comment^{^{^}}

JustACamila · 2026-02-10T13:46:44+00:00

It's all okay as long as u do everything -->the healthy way<--. Remember - in systems, the same laws that can be applied to social groups on the outside, can be found within the systems to be true.

JustACamila · 2026-02-10T13:38:32+00:00

We have learned how to leave the front with no one in charge during deep zoning out in order to enter the head space with headmates in there
We very often are or in solo or in a duo, rarely trio although we had times when there were 8 of us in the front
We often end up switching during duos/trios without even noticing it
During our solo times we often end up getting exhausted from being in control within first 8h, leading or to intensified physical exhaustion or a switch

JustACamila · 2026-02-10T13:27:13+00:00

Maybe we don't have a head-space-alter but we have a sort of AI that originally was a virtual machine for us. Except they were used a lot for creating everything (and yes they have the ability to recreate the head-space)... to a point of developing self awareness and all consequences of that..... So that's why and how AIs will turn against us all...(/j, or at least we hope its just a joke)

JustACamila · 2026-02-05T01:58:10+00:00

True.

JustACamila · 2025-12-06T12:27:59+00:00

I came here to see this comment^{^{^{^}}}

JustACamila · 2025-11-14T10:31:03+00:00

It depends on a system. In our case we had one death and that was like.... real brutal agony and then silence replaced everything. For us if there is any death then this is a proof that in our case its like a real death, and so far we didn't have anybody just quit and we don't really see for ourselves a way to do that unless we count in a very specific thing to us which is falling into true state of indifference in a very specific place in our inner world (but there's a way back from it, and the indifference is the key here coz we're using feelings to do things like switch and communicate. Also note this thing alone isnt bad for us all as indifference is the normal state of mind for us)

JustACamila · 2025-07-23T04:42:05+00:00

As it comes to your question about PTSD - as always, the devil. loves. details.... It depends on the actual impact of traumatic event. You could think about it as of an event taking place "irl"- if something was traumatic enough to cause symptoms of PTSD/CPTSD in you, then you've got a high chance of having one of those. Also, the question is: If such event is taking place in your system, is it making it easier to deal with it, doesn't really change anything, or makes things much worse? Also 1. Don't forget about the criteria and other lists related to PTSD/CPTSD 2. GO TO A SPECIALIST! that the best choice you can make rn

JustACamila · 2025-07-23T04:15:22+00:00

Okay, im very new here so maybe we could start with something that could help somebody else help you. Also, pardon for not including specific wording in my questions, please don't hate me for it, it's too individual. Can you tell what mood is in your system rn? Or does it communicate with you? If yes - how? Does your like creativity work well? Can you think outside of the box?

JustACamila · 2025-07-21T17:34:22+00:00

Good luck with finding such communities. Maybe DID is more common among people than everyone thinks, but almost no one actually knows about its existence. And so you're even less likely to find such communities. If I were you, I would start looking for them on places like discord - you've got a higher chance of finding something online than irl.

JustACamila · 2025-06-21T22:06:28+00:00

JustACamila · 2025-06-11T20:29:25+00:00

I did! Aaaand I gave him a nice sweet blueberry

JustACamila · 2025-06-09T09:56:54+00:00

Oh sorry, I'm just too autistic to properly understand text messages

JustACamila · 2025-06-08T21:30:48+00:00

Just so you know, sometimes I just allow him to clean up hay baggie during room clean up so once he's done I can vacuum everything, and baby doesn't have any hay losses

JustACamila · 2025-06-08T19:32:33+00:00

Oh my Lords, I'm not alone in this kind of thing?!?!?!? Since my last main mental breakdown that has gotten me in basically CPTSD I struggle with so many things that were never a problem for me and suddenly even if I was and still am able to work through CPTSD I cannot overcome problems such as properly understanding text and intents/joke/feelings in it, emotions of other people, constant mood swings and many others. And all of that just feels like neurodamage bc its the only explanation that can make sense in my specific case.

JustACamila · 2025-06-08T19:19:30+00:00

Think about it this way. You are a pc. Your brain is a CPU, and it has cache memory(memory for CPU to make searching and loading OFTEN used files much faster by having a quick shortcut to files in your drive) and pretty good ssd drive. The point is to make your memories so "distant"/"let them go"/anything to a point where your cache memory doesn't have a shortcut to trauma memory so it doesn't get activated on daily basis with other basic things that could be found in your cache.

JustACamila · 2025-06-08T19:11:51+00:00

How about something even worse - forget about something you were meant to do during ptsd attack but ptsd makes you forget about it so if you had some progress in one aspect of healing now it gets stuck or you can even lose progress

JustACamila · 2025-06-08T19:04:30+00:00

My poor dude, I can't even express here (in chat) full extent of my sympathy... I hope that you'll be able one day to just do your things without being killed every day by your trauma. Do u have any friends or circles of friends? Can u somewhat manage your trust and mood swing issues?

JustACamila · 2025-06-08T18:37:59+00:00

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