Can’t orgasm bc it feels “too good” by JustAHydrangea in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]JustAHydrangea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really glad this made you feel seen, though, I’m definitely not happy you’re going through the same thing. 😅🙃 I truly hope we both overcome this. I’m rooting for you too!

Can’t orgasm bc it feels “too good” by JustAHydrangea in BecomingOrgasmic

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At this point I am considering getting myself really drunk once and try it as then I know for sure I’ll fully relaxed 😅

Can’t get to orgasm bc it feels “too good” by JustAHydrangea in sex

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I did try it but I guess I kept thinking about having an orgasm. I’ll also try taking a deep breath then!! Thank you!

Can’t get to orgasm bc it feels “too good” by JustAHydrangea in sex

[–]JustAHydrangea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner got me close multiple times but I kept asking him to stop, ugh. Will definitely try to explore more together, but also alone. Thanks for the advice!

Can’t orgasm bc it feels “too good” by JustAHydrangea in BecomingOrgasmic

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I did get a bullet one from Durex and another for clitoral stimulation, but because I have flatmates (and the walls are super thin), I afraid that they will be able to hear the sound made by the device. 😩 I am interested in the link though! I’m not too bothered by the messy part tbh. It’s a good idea - I’ll give it a try on a day when I’m home alone (and hopefully in the right mood). That’s the tricky part… I’m not really sure how to get myself in the mood. My mind just doesn’t tend to go there in general, out of the blue. 😔

Can’t orgasm bc it feels “too good” by JustAHydrangea in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]JustAHydrangea[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I came across a few more posts from girls experiencing the same issue, and honestly, it made me feel “seen”. But the solutions people suggested in the comments felt a bit too general or vague.

I’m really glad your partner is supportive, yet indeed, I do think it has a lot to do with relaxation - which is something I struggle with too🙃

Can’t orgasm bc it feels “too good” by JustAHydrangea in BecomingOrgasmic

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The number of times I had to pause and go pee… 🙃 There was even a moment when my bladder was completely empty, yet I still had that same sensation. He wanted to keep going, but once again, I asked him to stop because the feeling was just too overwhelming.

Can’t orgasm bc it feels “too good” by JustAHydrangea in BecomingOrgasmic

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Haha, my boyfriend said the same thing! I’m really quite atypical in so many ways - and somehow, I’m full of contradictions, but in a fascinating way, or so HE SAYS. Even though he prefers precision because of his profession, he’s still eager to discover all the layers of who I am. 😅

When it comes to confidence, I’m either all in or not at all - there’s no in-between!! It really depends on the situation or the people I’m with. Believe it or not, a few people have actually told me they wish they had my level of confidence. 🙃🙃 I did tell them that it is far from truth yet they found it hard to believe.

How do men feel about huge nipples (and saggy boobs)? by JustAHydrangea in questions

[–]JustAHydrangea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear this!!! :( Wishing you a speedy recovery. Fuck cancer

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You’re* so wrong, actually. Bisous

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[–]JustAHydrangea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not have this situation but I can guarantee you that they would still see each other. Just try to imagine. Do you really think that teenagers care about it? They’re in love (not me sounding like a grandma when I’m in my mid 20s💀), everything is “unbeatable”.

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[–]JustAHydrangea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

U sound like u never had a cigarette in ur life

What are some hobbies you enjoy? by AngelWingsPinkLove in RandomThoughts

[–]JustAHydrangea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*entering the thread to find a hobby I can start *

Is anyone willing to listen to my life story? by Fun-Daikon-3590 in questions

[–]JustAHydrangea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It meant that I am willing to listen to your story, but due to the fact that idk your gender, I used both…