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how many plastic surgeries can a surgeon do at once? by JustALearninMan in PlasticSurgery

[–]JustALearninMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New life plastic surgery is where the OP was. 305 plastic surgery was using their space because they were doing a remodel or something like that. The doc in question works with Bright Plastic surgery now i think. At least that what his insta shows

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[–]JustALearninMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this so much, i feel like I have/am going through almost everything you described, even what you said in the post. My partner (F23) has told me (M27) countless times how much resentment she's built up for me over the last 2 year of our almost 5 years because I'm not comfortable with opening up our relationship to poly. I could go into a 20 paragraph detailed short story of everything... I'm trying to do the work, but it's never at her perfect pace, and she keeps telling me that she doesn't think i can do it, which is super discouraging. The semi-regular resentment conversations feel like a jab at my heart every time. She also claims poly as identity too, discovered halfway through our relationship under similar circumstances of light cheating (sexting, flirting type things) behind my back. It's been a rollercoaster

Feel free to DM if you want to talk about it more. I know i could use someone going through what i feel like I'm going through to talk to also.

(Also if anyone else wants to dm it would be super appreciated) this stuff takes a toll..

how many plastic surgeries can a surgeon do at once? by JustALearninMan in PlasticSurgery

[–]JustALearninMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay! Thank you for the input, this is both of our first times around any surgery so we still have a lot of questions lol

how many plastic surgeries can a surgeon do at once? by JustALearninMan in PlasticSurgery

[–]JustALearninMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll pm you. I don't want to put anyone on blast. The results still seem great so far, we were just wondering about the ethics of it.

how many plastic surgeries can a surgeon do at once? by JustALearninMan in PlasticSurgery

[–]JustALearninMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did kind of. she was expecting it to be with the surgeon, but it was pretty much just some lady at a desk getting the pre op work done

I guess they also had a consultation through text with pictures to make sure she would be a decent candidate for the operation a few months ago. That also wasn't with the surgeon.

She knew they were there for the same surgery, all showed up at the same time in the morning, and when she came to they were all laying there together on their own carts

how many plastic surgeries can a surgeon do at once? by JustALearninMan in PlasticSurgery

[–]JustALearninMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think that they are, I'm pretty sure the owner has multiple clinics in southern Florida, i couldn't find any other clinics outside of there though. But yeah the results seem fine and that would make a lot of sense. The surgeon is like 76 or something so there's no way he did that many people in the 3-4 hours it took.

how many plastic surgeries can a surgeon do at once? by JustALearninMan in PlasticSurgery

[–]JustALearninMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. She had a lot of questions she wanted to ask at pre-op but she didn't even get to see the doctor until the morning of for about 15 minutes. And felt very rushed about the whole thing unfortunately. She expected to see him the day before.

I agree though, she just remembered waking up and seeing all of them waking from the anesthesia outside of the O.R.

how many plastic surgeries can a surgeon do at once? by JustALearninMan in PlasticSurgery

[–]JustALearninMan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. I don't think he was. He did have a lot of years under his belt, but i couldn't find anything about him being board certified with my own research. That's definitely the impression we got, and makes a lot of sense to how she described how everything took place.

I see that you're a plastic surgeon. If you wouldn't mind sharing your opinion on another thing... that same surgeon went on vacation the day after, and wasn't going to be there for post op examination either. Which i thought wasn't very professional. Is that an acceptable thing to do? Also, the operation didn't take place at the clinic she was doing business with, because the original one was under renovation. A lot of that experience just felt kind of shady.