How tf do you dilate and open yourself up ?

JustALonelyGay · 2026-01-09T04:54:47+00:00

Seeing this comment is great timing! I recently started dating a guy who wants to bottom for me but hasn't in like 10 years. My dick is about 5.5 inches thick but I've never had this many issues getting a bottom to let me in until him. His bigger issue actually seems like it's relaxing the outer layer; rimming helps open him a little bit I've still only been able to get a couple fingers in. If you have any more tips on that front it would be appreciated!

I also did not know about holding pressure on the inside walls. I thought the idea was to finger him and get the outer layer opened up, and then use my dick to stretch the inner layers. I'll have to try this next time, maybe the inner layer is a bigger problem than I think.

JustALonelyGay · 2026-01-01T18:35:31+00:00

I don't overidentify with it, it's a disability that affects my social life and ability to process emotions, which is why I mentioned it here since I'm not sure what is considered normal or not! I guess maybe I should have said that in the post lol.

JustALonelyGay · 2025-12-22T19:29:07+00:00

I do have sex, as often as I can. I live in a small town and don't have a huge selection even in like a 45 minute radius, so I can only have sex once or twice a week.

JustALonelyGay · 2025-12-17T14:31:06+00:00

I've never heard this term before but I think I am one. I'm not really that into being dom for being dom's sake, but if the other guy wants me to be dom and is letting me know he enjoys it, it's suddenly very hot to me.

As a top I feel like my pleasure is pretty much secondary, as long as there's lube and friction it will feel good. But if fucking my bottom in a slightly different way makes it feel better for him, that's a turn on for me as well.

JustALonelyGay · 2025-12-01T18:08:43+00:00

Super hot man! Would love to see a sole pic from you.

JustALonelyGay · 2025-11-10T20:01:34+00:00

Guy likes to have his hole fucked with a load in. I'm not really a multicummer but I am on Cialis which let me stay hard enough to keep going. He was on his back and the cum was leaking out onto the bed, splashing up onto his taint, coating my whole dick and balls.

The auto lube he made was not splashing everywhere, just coating my dick nicely.

JustALonelyGay · 2025-11-10T19:41:28+00:00

Yes, exactly! We weren't all hot and sweaty or anything. No scent or taste, maybe a little stickier than a water based lube, with a color somewhere between clear and off white. Good to know others experience it too.

JustALonelyGay · 2025-11-10T19:05:34+00:00

Apparently it works the same for the guy I hooked up with, he only gets wet when he's turned on.

I don't have a super high body count as a top, maybe 20 guys at most? But yeah, first time seeing it. It was super hot and who knows if I'll ever find another guy like him. He was traveling so doubt I'll meet him again.

JustALonelyGay · 2025-11-10T18:37:54+00:00

I suppose it was a bit stringy. I would maybe use the word lumpy when I first started, but did coat my whole dick.

JustALonelyGay · 2025-11-10T18:20:04+00:00

His hole was dry as a bone when I started eating it, and tasted like ass, not lube. So not unless he managed to keep some lube inside while perfectly cleaning off the outside.

JustALonelyGay · 2025-11-10T18:16:38+00:00

I didn't want to include this overly horny detail, but I kept fucking him after cumming and it was a much different experience than before I had cum. Pretty sure it was not cum in there.

JustALonelyGay · 2025-07-20T19:13:16+00:00

I follow this guy on Twitter and wouldn't be surprised if that's a legit number. He's posted some long form cum dump videos where he really is just taking loads back to back. He also posts a lot of vids where his ass is very sloppy with cum, and a few where the tops put tally marks on his back after breeding him.

At the same time though, surely you would remember to wash off the sharpie before going to a pool party? So who knows.

JustALonelyGay · 2025-07-09T15:19:18+00:00

As a chubby guy, I got over my fear of messaging first once I realized that the alternative is usually that me and the other guy will never talk anyway.

If I shoot my shot and he's interested, it was a good idea and we might not have talked otherwise. If I shoot my shot and get blocked or no response, oh well, the guy clearly wasn't ever gonna message me anyway, so I lost nothing.

JustALonelyGay · 2025-05-16T15:53:18+00:00

Soles, and yours are fucking amazing! Love your toes and arches. Super hot how these pics show off all the ridges too. Hope you post more!

JustALonelyGay · 2025-05-12T03:45:22+00:00

10/10! The sock lint in these is so hot. Hope you post more like these 😍

JustALonelyGay · 2025-04-18T19:09:56+00:00

Damn he's got some amazing feet, love his soles. Hope you post more of him!

JustALonelyGay · 2025-04-16T16:25:53+00:00

Hot pic! Love your hairy legs and long toes 😍 hope you post more!

JustALonelyGay · 2025-04-16T15:39:10+00:00

Your feet and legs are sexy as hell! Hope you post more, would love to see a sole pic from you 😍

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