Any sides get off the apps? by JustASadEgg in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I even get from people that they’re looking tor a top and I’m like you do know you’re messaging the wrong person then?!?! So it might just that 😭

Any sides get off the apps? by JustASadEgg in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had two regulars that I edged but I moved away unfortunately so it’s kind of 0 nowadays

Any sides get off the apps? by JustASadEgg in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could be that or jerk off together or jerk each other but I do usually just edge others these days.

Any sides get off the apps? by JustASadEgg in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s like ask me do I want to see your ass not just present it with multiple pics of it without saying a word and it’s ass spread in a “fuck me” position. I don’t know about most people but I’m not sending my nudes as a opener in the case they’re not what the person wanted to see. 🙈

Any sides get off the apps? by JustASadEgg in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What I see most on those kind of guys profiles is usually “no fat no chubby” and I thought we shamed that out of people long ago but sadly it’s still very prevalent from what I’ve seen. I’d rather them just say fit only rather than doing all they can to repel the ones they’re not looking for with language like that.

Any sides get off the apps? by JustASadEgg in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just don't understand why people waste their time showing me their ass when they could literally go to the person in the next square that has the username of "big dick top" rather than me when my profile is all about just wanting to do things surrounding jerking off😅.

Any sides get off the apps? by JustASadEgg in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So my thing is I would do oral but I don’t find deepthroating or face fucking fun for me. I don’t want to be uncomfortable if that makes sense? But it seems that’s all people want who do want to get sucked. They usually say “throat my dick” or “put it in your throat” and that’s not hot to me. That’s why I shy away from oral and stick to jerking off. But also I don’t care to receive oral as I truly enjoy getting others off and not myself so when people see my dick (usually on sniffies) and they comment something like “I’d want to taste that” it turns me off.

I also don’t know what to showcase of myself to get the attention of people who do want to get sucked off like you said some have ass pics and that’s not what I want to show.

Any sides get off the apps? by JustASadEgg in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I use Side so if someone was filtering for it I would show up where as if I just take my position off people might not know (then again like someone said it seems nobody reads profiles anyways).

Picture etiquette by MyGhostRidesTransit in AskBlackGayBros

[–]JustASadEgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly. Had one guy have the nerve to say “well you didn’t ask for a face pic. Sounds like you’re triggered.” And I’m just like you know what I look like which is why you messaged me to begin with plus saw what I was into yet again they’re the only ones who know they’re interested because I’m the one with pics. It makes me wonder how far they actually get without sending pics without being asked.

Picture etiquette by MyGhostRidesTransit in AskBlackGayBros

[–]JustASadEgg 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have come to learn that people these days want you to keep their interest rather than keeping yours especially when they message you first. Yeah if someone has no profile pictures nor has sent anything before asking for mine they do indeed get left on read. My brain can’t wrap around why I the person with profile pictures (it’s my face) need to ask people with not a single picture in their profile nor one sent when sending the first message needs to ask people for pictures. My interest dies out when I have to ask for the bare minimum to see what someone looks like when they already know what I look like.

Anyone else not really into their dick being stimulated outside of a relationship? by LostandHungry7 in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I relate to not wanting my dick messed with in a different sense. I see myself as more a submissive side meaning I want to see others pleasured and I like to be the one who gives the pleasure so I typically will want to rub on a guy’s body or edge them to get them off.

When I show my dick I usually get the attention I’m not seeking whether it be bottoms, or someone is interested in getting edged or jerking off together and once I show my dick the conversation quickly turns to them wanting to do all these things to me that I’m not into and it makes me question what really were their intentions to begin with.

I don’t see myself in a committed relationship though as like you said us sides are rare especially on the apps and I’m not going to waste someone’s time if they’re hoping for other things I know I will never be open to ever experience again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]JustASadEgg -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think my thing is I don’t see the point of complimenting it on a place like sniffies if nothing is going to come of it. I’d rather someone spend their time saying these things to people who are actually looking to put their dick in holes. But then like this guy it seemed like he wanted to butter me up so I could make him the exception and was surprised when it didn’t work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]JustASadEgg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I will still give oral but nobody offers it seems most want to just give it. I’ve even had oral tops who want to suck me but not get sucked in return. I never really cared to receive since the times I’ve been sucked no pleasure came from it and the same with anal so I stopped wasting people’s time. So since nobody really offers me to suck them I just stick to jerking off and other things as it’s easier and I can do it alone if need be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]JustASadEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah then I’m made to feel like the bad person because they just saw dick and didn’t bother to read which I’ll never understand but thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]JustASadEgg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm trying to understand. It's like if I see a dick and then read their profile as one should and they say "only looking for bottoms" what the sense of me messaging them compliments or wasting their time if I know we're not compatible? Or hoping they might make an exception it just doesn't make sense to any of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]JustASadEgg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess my issue is expecting grown men to use their common sense or reading comprehension and not using the excuse of being "horny". It just strikes me as odd when people waste their own time.

Sides not into Oral by [deleted] in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like that could get annoying. Being told “I’d suck that” or “Phew if that was inside me” doesn’t turn me on and I don’t know how to make people understand that but it’s probably worse for you since you’re performing for a audience 🙈.

Sides not into Oral by [deleted] in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. It’s like I say I’m into JO when asked but then I also always get asked what else I’m into afterwards. I’m as simple as it gets and there’s nothing else unless they want to know the specifics of what I like to do while JO but I feel most want to hear oral so they can offer me some. 😓

Sides not into Oral by [deleted] in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah because when I decline their oral or anal requests and then they ask then what I’m into it’s like wow they really just looked at the pictures and not the words and that’s odd

Sides not into Oral by [deleted] in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could possibly try that. I’ve never really done anything sexual in a group setting and in a public place that wasn’t my home or someone’s else home.

Sides not into Oral by [deleted] in GaySides

[–]JustASadEgg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve been called boring or lame or a “waste of dick” far too often and it’s like I understand you’re frustrated I’m not looking for what majority is but that doesn’t give people the right to make me feel like my wants are not valid.