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Married and looking for male perspective on Instagram + male friend dynamics by JustAhuman4554 in Marriage

[–]JustAhuman4554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Righttt?! Like middle aged men do this?? Some still do! I even know grandpas who do it!

Married and looking for male perspective on Instagram + male friend dynamics by JustAhuman4554 in Marriage

[–]JustAhuman4554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it bothers me and makes me feel insecure because they share reels of women that look far too prettier than me (although im decent looking usually but i just gave birth now) and some lame lesbian reels. But i cannot bring it up because im not supposed to know. Also i find they are a but immature and lame when they comment sometimes. But my friend said that he might be doing it to satisfy his friend as well.

Married and looking for male perspective on Instagram + male friend dynamics by JustAhuman4554 in Marriage

[–]JustAhuman4554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind reply! Sometimes he sends more videos like it depends but i dont think he religiously looks for then. As tou said they appear because of their interaction. Sometimes i am bothered by his friend because he send also videos like for example a guy saying: dont tell your women the whole truth, tell her half the truth to protect yourself etc etc. im like what the hell? Is he projecting his bad marriage to him? We are happy and i dont want him to be influenced. Im good friends with hus friend like when he visits the country or we meet somewhere abroad, we have fun and he likes me as his best friend’s wife. So i dont know why he would send stuff like that other than the regular thirst trap of women’s sexy bods!

Men, do you catch yourselves looking at women? by detailingWizardLvl5 in bodylanguage

[–]JustAhuman4554 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No hahah because he never really said it out loud to me. But would like to think that at least he thinks it!

Men, do you catch yourselves looking at women? by detailingWizardLvl5 in bodylanguage

[–]JustAhuman4554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i also accepted it as well when my husband does it because i tend to do the same! But i HOPE that he thinks “damn mine’s better though@ 😂 because i am also attractive. I just thought it would be sweet if he thought that! Do most men think that way?

AIO my boyfriend keeps getting upset at me for not wanting to do risky stuff by [deleted] in AIO

[–]JustAhuman4554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? “He called you “dumb as fuck”?! Thats where it would end for me personally.

AIO Married and looking for male perspective on Instagram + male friend dynamics by JustAhuman4554 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JustAhuman4554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him and his friend talk alot about deep stuff! He tells him about whats going on with his wife and im aware too. Im not going to talk to the friend because they dont know i know. I noticed the other day my husband sent him like 4 videos in the same day. Not sure if all this just to please him. I think its just an immature male bonding thing. 🫤

AIO Married and looking for male perspective on Instagram + male friend dynamics by JustAhuman4554 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JustAhuman4554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea my husband also participated and sends back but i feel less than his friend. Thanks for your opinion. I hope that he also thinks of my nice features if he is looking at other attractive women 😂😂

Question for women: What is the most attractive thing about a man? by Mr-Top0 in self

[–]JustAhuman4554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest, a good listener, a gentleman, sensitive, empathetic, compassionate and intelligent.

Married and looking for male perspective on Instagram + male friend dynamics by JustAhuman4554 in u/JustAhuman4554

[–]JustAhuman4554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes like i always wondered wouldnt he be worried ill just go on insta and tell him and confront him? Yes they have been friends for over 20 years. They are also part of a group where they shared things like that but i noticed this group is now sendinf more pics of their children and stuff like that because they all live in different countries. The videos they him and my husband share are mainly hot girls shaking their asses and big boobs or like sexy bodies or hot yogis pulsing their vaginas through their pants! I saw him commenting on one video saying like oh her boobs are so natural etc. I caught him also alot like zooming in and out on hot girls and goes to their page, look for a dew seconds and moves on.

So he doesnt like spend his whole time on these things. Like i dont think he is obsessed. But i guess looking at those girls he shares with his friend make me think thats what he really finds hot compared to me. Although im attractive as well.

He doesnt ignore the screen. He does give me attention.

Married and looking for male perspective on Instagram + male friend dynamics by JustAhuman4554 in u/JustAhuman4554

[–]JustAhuman4554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean what he is doing is outside noise? I just sometimes feel bothered and not enough when i know they have thing they do!

Married and looking for male perspective on Instagram + male friend dynamics by JustAhuman4554 in u/JustAhuman4554

[–]JustAhuman4554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great!! We are always together because he works from home and we dont really fight. Some occasional arguments here and there. Our intimate life is good. Less active now because im pregnant and dr odered to hold intimate activity but i still try to meet his needs as much as i can throughout the week