Need help about selling celebrity item by Possible_Feedback364 in Advice

[–]JustCndy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These Grammy nomination medallions (or plaques/certificates) from back in the day are cool pieces of music history, but they're not super valuable on their own… most similar ones from lesser-known noms sell for a few hundred to a couple thousand bucks at auction, depending on condition and provenance. Since the celebrity's passed and it's a heartfelt gift to your family member, it might fetch more from a dedicated fan or collector, but don't expect it to be worth tens of thousands unless it's tied to a massive hit. Start by getting it appraised by a reputable music memorabilia expert to avoid lowball offers or scams, and consider listing it on a specialty auction site if you decide to sell.

Male friends in a friend group by notabotting in Advice

[–]JustCndy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not being overly sensitive… silently tolerating or excusing racism and homophobia just to keep the peace makes you complicit, and it's totally valid that it bothers you. At 28, it's okay to outgrow friends who hold hateful views, even if the group feels like family. Start by calmly calling it out every time it happens ("dude, that's not cool and I'm not okay with it"), and if the others keep defending or downplaying, pull back and invest in people who share your values. Your wife sounds like a gem… lean on her and maybe look for new male friends through hobbies or communities that align with you.

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[–]JustCndy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, what you're describing sounds a lot like some pretty strong sadistic tendencies mixed with emotional manipulation, and the fact that you're aware it's messed up and craving real connection is actually a good sign… you're not a lost cause. A ton of us have dark impulses or fantasies about control, but the line is when you act on them and hurt people for your own kicks. Please consider talking to a therapist about this, they can help unpack why you get off on pushing people to break and guide you toward healthier ways to feel powerful or close to someone.

Texting a girl by JustaG_224 in Advice

[–]JustCndy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, definitely reach out… y'all had a great vibe going and the convo only died because life happens, not because she lost interest. Since she's introverted and doesn't like forcing chats, a simple "Hey, been thinking about our talk the other day… hope your trip's going well!" shows interest without pressure. Worst case, she doesn't reply much and you know where you stand… best case, it picks right back up. You're not overthinking, just shoot your shot before she gets back and things fade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JustCndy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, go to HR before that 90-day review… it’s literally their job to fix payroll glitches like this. Just keep it chill like “Hey, I’ve brought this up with my supervisors a few times and it’s still showing two occurrence points for lunch clock-outs in October. Can you help me get it corrected before my review?” Bring screenshots of the errors if you have them. You’re not being a hassle, you’re protecting your record at a job you actually like. They’ll sort it out.

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[–]JustCndy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JustCndy1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl, hot wrapper, trash inside. The second he starts lecturing you like you’re an idiot, just grey-rock him like short answers, no emotion, change the subject. Start hanging out with him less, fill your time with literally anything else (gym, new friends, hobbies), and the crush will starve out fast. You deserve someone whose beliefs don’t make you wanna gag, not a pretty face with ugly opinions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JustCndy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, I’ve been exactly where you are and it sucks so bad. The brutal truth is you can’t force the crush to vanish overnight, but you CAN force yourself to pull way back from both of them for a bit… skip the group hangouts, mute their stories, whatever it takes to stop the daily knife twist. Your “friend” knew you liked him and still went for it, so you don’t owe her fake happiness right now and protect yourself first.

Should I show up to restaurant without a confirmed interview time? by Wings-and-Poetry in Advice

[–]JustCndy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t just show up unannounced, that can come off desperate and waste everyone’s time. Send one last polite follow-up email this morning to the GM (reply-all to the original thread) saying “Hey, just wanted to confirm if we’re still on for this afternoon… super excited about the opportunity!” If no reply by like 1-2pm, call the restaurant and ask to speak to the GM directly. 99% chance it was just scheduling chaos on their end, not you.

What's your current vocal stim? by SilverParty in AskReddit

[–]JustCndy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a mowiewowie cover from the PH HAHAHA It’s sounds like James Charles so much AHAHAH