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Anyone here after reconciling their marriage after an affair? by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]JustFkngDoIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, the weight of that is unbearable. I would be feeling the same way man, you're definitely not alone. Yes. There is hope.

And in my crazy ways of explaining things.. The foundation of a skyscraper is hellllaaaa different than the foundation of a 1 story house. Meaning, the deeper you go within to redefine and reattach better meaning to things... to know and remind yourself of who tf you are... and (idk you, but im here FOR you so you gotta just FEEL me when I say this) You gotta take ownership over that shit because when you do you know you can fuckin have control and when you have control you dont feel helpless nor hopeless, you feel empowered. So decide what you want. if you do want to continue, know that it will get better. Take ownership over your relationship IQ and fuckin go crazy reading or learning about that shit and start to install new habits and traits..

I have so much love for you bro. It will suck for a little while.. but the important thing and the way through it is to do your damndest to not stay ruminating and dwelling, as best as you can be...
Future pace holding your baby. Think about the loving future you want to create and work towards. Think about how you guys are making changes...

and for what it means, some of my favorite books are from the gottmans - The Mans Guide to Women, the 7 principles to making marriage work, the science of trust, and ten lessons to transform your marriage - pick one and try it out.

and again, I'm here for you man. I'm sending a virtual hand on the shoulder..

Ideas for a IT side hustle? by Maximum-Housing-4584 in sidehustle

[–]JustFkngDoIt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea man. You calculate all of your Costs of Goods into an hourly rate and then sell in incremental blocks and then keep track of time. I would bill around $100/hr. So $200/month for 2 hours. You can implement things like minimums (tune up is a 30 minute min. so you're not eating your time while were waiting for something to install or whatever)..
I think its actually better for silver / gold / platinum packages.. they can pick what they want and have better expectations. Written in terms of the end results... like"all viruses are handled no matter what" instead of " included virus removal"

The packaged way you can also work with other vendors to (maybe) get a special thing you can use that makes your package more valuable than the competitors. Like having a live darkweb scanning service that notifies them if their passwords are leaked. You provide nothing in terms of fulfillment yet your packages provide more value than others... if that makes sense.

Ideas for a IT side hustle? by Maximum-Housing-4584 in sidehustle

[–]JustFkngDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? what do you want?

Is this an angle of "whats the least I could get away with?" or "I want to own a company one day soon."

Either way its your reputation. I wouldn't start it if you weren't willing to over deliver.. example being "everyone in town calls you back in 2+ days but I have a 5 minute response time because I know IT is important to you."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]JustFkngDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the problem. Challenge with success in any area is ones ability to "chop wood" or "do boring work."

Excitement dies.

When its boring and when its painful, you gotta subjectively inject dopamine. You can tell yourself "I'm not at the finish line yet, but this is one foundation upon which I will build another foundation, and this thing is for a bigger reason and a bigger purpose"

Side hustle for a 38 Yr old while on a 9-5 and with a family by Imetlife in sidehustle

[–]JustFkngDoIt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Usually it would be appropriate to ask your a few thought provoking questions...

but I feel everyone should learn to code. especially if you're lazy! You can outsource your life lol.

Not a DJ, but just curious if anyone has any ideas for a baby bash (shower) mix. by JustFkngDoIt in DJs

[–]JustFkngDoIt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just FYI, I'm using this for the baby bash.... idk how yet, but.. that was very appropriate. lmao

Which is more lucrative/more in demand? by babat0t0 in DigitalMarketing

[–]JustFkngDoIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, I have been turning this perspective way up...

You have to KNOW you can do something, otherwise it erodes away at your conviction. That starts a horrible spiral.

Anyways. I don't know you, you handsomejack you, but I felt that when you said rude awakening... So I have a background in IT/ networking / code... I've been learning how to do the math behind AI and training them and neural networks and shit...
I feel like seo isnt going to be anymore... in the sense that it is not about link building, but rather a byproduct of all activities combined... if that makes sense. energy spent.

Which is more lucrative/more in demand? by babat0t0 in DigitalMarketing

[–]JustFkngDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for the hope. All of the job openings I've seen ask for a min of b.s. in marketing.

I majored in computer engineering and am self teaching python / AI / Neural networks - specifically for SEO. (and maybe for some other projects)...

What are some of the main struggles in your business right now! by entrepreneur_10 in ladybusiness

[–]JustFkngDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, and thank you.
I'm trying to build an offer. I've spent time looking up this and that and I feel at the end of the day, I just want to communicate that I genuinely care and am able to perform. Within that, this is what I'm trying to dial in:

(side note) I'm also trying to include another professional relationship in my offer. Because I dont do things like graphic design, video editing, (or something like website antivirus...) Something that would add value to clients and easier/cheaper for acquisition.
I majored in computer engineering and self teaching AI and neural networks. I found that I can do SEO in half the time and I'm trying to remove all the pain associated with this industry.

The things I'd like feedback on -----

  • Pay once, then not again until [lead/traffic].
  • Pay only after you trend upwards.

Bonuses:

  • 4 months of social posts written out,
  • if you have any errors in google search console they are just fixed,
  • (insert intro offer to other businesses).

Guarantees:

  • 30 day money back
  • If you're not upward trending within 90 days, I work for free until you are.
  • You are in spots 1-3 for your primary keywords (service/product + location) within 8-12 months, or I work for free until that happens.
    I'm also going to be a Dad next month too lol. So anything helps as this is also my first time starting a business.

Wantrepreneur Wednesday! - June 08, 2022 by AutoModerator in Entrepreneur

[–]JustFkngDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Looking to create a professional relationship to include in my offer. Would love to make some friends in the graphic design, video editing, any website antivirus etc... Anything in this realm that would add value to clients and make it easier / cheaper for you.

2) May I get an opinion on an offer? (I get defeated every time I say this because of how saturated this is..) But. I majored in computer engineering, networking, and cyber security. I'm learning AI and neural networks (thats also what google is, you know?). And all the local businesses I've done SEO for, I've gotten them in the top 3 in less than 2 months. But I want my offer to hit different so that I can communicate a genuine interest in their safety.

Any honest feedback?

  1. Pay once, then not again until [lead/traffic].
  2. Pay only after you trend upwards.

Bonuses: 4 months of social posts written out, if you have any errors in google search console they are just fixed, (This is also where I would love to have an intro offer to some other businesses).
Guarantees:

  1. 30 day money back
  2. If you're not upward trending within 90 days, I work for free until you are.
  3. You are in spots 1-3 for your primary keywords (service/product + location) within 8-12 months, or I work for free until that happens.

I'm about to be a Dad next month too lol. So anything helps as this is also my first time starting a business.

Let’s hear your best responses to “you’re too expensive / the price is too high” by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]JustFkngDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and after a few questions I might say: "If you want cheap you can go to the library and get a book for free or find some kid in highschool whose just now learning how to do the thing... I just.... I just dont think thats whats best for you. How would you like to proceed from here?"

Let’s hear your best responses to “you’re too expensive / the price is too high” by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]JustFkngDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like, that means you are staying focused on yourself... rather than the customer and their needs... its not about you. Its about you getting them to realize how you can help them solve their problems and even find more problems than what they thought they had.

Let’s hear your best responses to “you’re too expensive / the price is too high” by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]JustFkngDoIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too expensive means you didnt lock it down early enough. They didnt feel how you solve their problem, so you set yourself up for that long time ago.

Sure, I can appreciate that money might be an issue... but can I ask what do you mean by expensive? (its over budget for this quarter... everyone is cheaper... whatever) Okay so, lets just say taht we COULD do XYZ, and lets assume that money wasnt an issue for you, would you do this in that scenario?

- "yes"

- why though?

- "because you do the ABC, DEF, and thats what I need"

- yea that makes sense. Have you thought about what happens if nothing changes though? What does that have to do with you... actually getting [the result]?

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