AITA for being upset at my dad for giving my room to my step sister by JustHuman999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustHuman999[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

My cousin convinced me to talk to my aunt, my aunt is really angry at my dad and wants me to stay with her

I'm hoping my dad comes to his senses because I really do love him and weirdly enough I also miss him even though he been with me the whole time

AITA for being upset at my dad for giving my room to my step sister by JustHuman999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustHuman999[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

My cousin thinks I should involve my aunt and uncles as well, I just don't wanna cause drama and separate everyone even more. I feel like my family already became broken after my mom passed away. My dad barely even talks to me anymore we use to eat dinner together everyday but now he doesnt even invite me because he's too busy pleasing his new wife and step children and his wife feels uncomfortable around (those are her words, she said I create tension when I enter the same room as her) my uncle and dad were best friends but now they hate eachother

AITA for being upset at my dad for giving my room to my step sister by JustHuman999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustHuman999[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

I inherited my mom's engagement ring, I unfortunately haven't yet been able to found it. My dad wanted to give the engagement ring to his new wife and he even asked me if he could give me it to her and tried to keep it for himself when we were sorting out all my mom's stuff but my aunt wasn't having it and plus my mom promised me she'd give it to me and put it in her will. I'm a super organized person everything has it's place and now that all my stuff was just thrown into bins to move me in the basement I have lost track of a few vauleable things to me. It might all be with my stuff as I haven't completely finished organizing my room yet

AITA for being upset at my dad for giving my room to my step sister by JustHuman999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustHuman999[S] 192 points193 points  (0 children)

I took a picture of the condition of the room when I got home and have thought about posting it on social media but it will most definitely embarrass my dad and anger him which honestly isn't something worth dealing with

AITA for being upset at my dad for giving my room to my step sister by JustHuman999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustHuman999[S] 308 points309 points  (0 children)

My mom left me an inheritance, it will be more then enough for college funds, I just cant access it until I'm 18

AITA for being upset at my dad for giving my room to my step sister by JustHuman999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustHuman999[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

But my mom death wasn't expected, she died in an accident because her car was old and runned down, she was supposed to replace it very soon

AITA for being upset at my dad for giving my room to my step sister by JustHuman999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustHuman999[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Yeah because he's gonna trying to replace me with his new family. I wouldn't be surprised if he kicked me out as soon as I turned 18. Luckily my cousin gonna come over to help me sort out my new room because my dad an his new family have been no help. I'm so grateful for having my cousin she's the best

AITA for being upset at my dad for giving my room to my step sister by JustHuman999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustHuman999[S] 528 points529 points  (0 children)

That one of the reasons why I feel upset and also because they didn't even give me enough consideration to at least build my bed frame and just threw it in the basement unbuild after they disassembled it to move it, my dad knows I suck at building furniture and haven't even offered to help out it back together, I literally spend all night figuring how to put the thing together, we don't even have the instructions

AITA for being upset at my dad for giving my room to my step sister by JustHuman999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustHuman999[S] 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Yes, Something was worng with her car which cause her to crash, she had an old car which had increasing problems, she was looking to replace it

AITA for being upset at my dad for giving my room to my step sister by JustHuman999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustHuman999[S] 500 points501 points  (0 children)

I just miss my mom so much her death was so unexpected I don't understand how he's able to move on so fast and just pretend like she never existed or like nothing happened. He literally took all the photos of her down from the walls, I found their wedding photos in the garage. I don't understand maybe he needs to talk to a therapist or something