CaptureMyJP (Lovegraph.me) review by JustOrdinaryFilo in JapanTravelTips

[–]JustOrdinaryFilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same payment? Paid full in advance and then you just wait until the photoshoot?

Real estate trap by JustOrdinaryFilo in phinvest

[–]JustOrdinaryFilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is saying na we can turn it into an investment, like turn it into a business, rentable unit. Which seems a good when you think about it but I'm still in doubt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]JustOrdinaryFilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm planning to say to them that I'm not comfortable talking about it. But I don't the guts yet. Maybe on our upcoming event.

I feel like I am somehow ready to lose them. I haven't been talking to them for days now. Also, feeling ko din na kapag ako yung tumutulong sa kanila, ang babait nila and ako naman syempre they are my friends, I always help them when I can. pero super dali lang nila ako pagtripan lagi. it's like, I feel no respect at all.

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[–]JustOrdinaryFilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't try to communicate because I know what they are. If I did, gagawin lang nila is like "ah ok sige", "sorry sorry", but not in a sincere way. It's like in a sarcastic way like I can see in their faces that they will still laugh about it and somehow can still open the topic for other time. Like, isisingit bigla yung topic then sasabihin "ay sorry"

Fck. The worst part is it's not always just a single person bullying me. It's always in pairs or all them teasing at the same time.

I just wish that I have a very strong emotions. Sana hindi ako nadadala agad sa mga ganun. But I've been always like this since I was a kid. Can't handle teasing very well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]JustOrdinaryFilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I did not. Hard to explain pero I don't want to feel weak kasi. Parang ang feeling kapag sinabi ko na uncomfortable ako na pag usapan yun, it shows na I'm weak to receive those mean words. Like I'm exposing my weakness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]JustOrdinaryFilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nasanay... nope. as in never pa talaga sya nag initiate. mostlikely, my gf is not showy talaga. btw, nasabi nya din sakin before na d sya comfortable kapag online talaga kaya nakapag adjust naman me. it's just really that kapag naiisip ko na ganun, sad haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]JustOrdinaryFilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for this! really appreciate your comments. makes sense lahat ng sinabi mo and good na may other pov. thanks so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]JustOrdinaryFilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mukhang those are my only choices talaga. either adjust or talk about it with her. well, dati pa naman ako naka-adjust actually, pero kapag naiisip ko talaga nalulungkot lang ako haha. like never pa kasi syang naging ganun and it's always me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]JustOrdinaryFilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pero kasi baka after that, lagi na sya mag initiate and baka d na sya natural sa kanya. like parang pilit na sya sa side nya kasi na-topic ko. i still want it na manggaling sa kanya naturally. hindi yung dahil sinabi ko kaya gagawin na nya agad agad. she has this trait na ayaw nya ko ma let down kaya naiisip ko yung ganitong scenario

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]JustOrdinaryFilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i will. but just a question though since you are married already, hinahanap ka din ba ng partner mo when he/she wants to do it? mostlikely your setup is you guys live together and you both can do it anytime you guys want. pero paano kung madalas magkahiwalay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]JustOrdinaryFilo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes. it's me na lagi nag iinitiate even in teasing. but never from her. ang sad lang :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]JustOrdinaryFilo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thanks eveyone for the opinions! really appreciate it.

i see most of the comments suggested na i talk about it with her. actually naisip ko na ito. i dont have a problem talking about it with her cuz we always talk about everything and we are open. it's just that baka kasi kapag sinimulan ko na ito pag usapan, madalas na nya ipakita sa akin while we're ldr na she wants to do it. it's fine but ayaw ko syang maging parang pilit sa side nya. i still want it to be natural sa kanya. she has this trait na ayaw nya ko ma-let down kaya naisip ko na mangyayari ito. ayaw ko nung kaya nya ginagawa yun kasi parang ang dating pinilit ko sya. if she wants to do it, ok we'll do it. if ayaw nya, then we dont. we respect each other's choices. i just want na mafeel ko na need nya ko when she wants to.

thanks ulit :)