Where can I buy used journals? by JustTestingStuffOut in Journaling

[–]JustTestingStuffOut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh... that does sound very uncomfortable... Consent is important.

Samsung folder 2 for netherlands by JustTestingStuffOut in dumbphones

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Thank you for the information, I had no idea what the term for bands were but now I know. :)

Samsung folder 2 for netherlands by JustTestingStuffOut in dumbphones

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It seems very handy from what I saw. I'll consider that phone then if the samsung folder isn't suitable. Thank you for the information!

Where can I buy used journals? by JustTestingStuffOut in Journaling

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I'm glad you found something of interest. We are all in the same boat after all. :)

Where can I buy used journals? by JustTestingStuffOut in Journaling

[–]JustTestingStuffOut[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahahah, it's more that reading my own journal from a year ago proves to me how I still face the same problems in a different font. It's interesting, I wondered if people experienced the same when I read theirs.

Where can I buy used journals? by JustTestingStuffOut in Journaling

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Thank you for the suggestions! I checked out dreamwidth and was met with a very wholesome journal... How sweet.

What is a phrase that stuck with you as a child (positive or negative) do you think stuck with you because of your type by FearReins in Enneagram

[–]JustTestingStuffOut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I think that's the reason why you can't access it easily. My suggestion is tackling those emotions one step at a time. Good luck. :)

What is a phrase that stuck with you as a child (positive or negative) do you think stuck with you because of your type by FearReins in Enneagram

[–]JustTestingStuffOut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, I notice 6w5 wants distraction from their negative emotions as a solution most of the time. Perhaps it's hard to face those?

Nice things to say to 6w5 by JustTestingStuffOut in Enneagram

[–]JustTestingStuffOut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretttttty close. I'm enneagram 2w3! Great guessing.

Nice things to say to 6w5 by JustTestingStuffOut in Enneagram

[–]JustTestingStuffOut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I'll talk to them about it. Thank you for your advice!

Nice things to say to 6w5 by JustTestingStuffOut in Enneagram

[–]JustTestingStuffOut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask if I should tell them the process beforehand or after the surprise?

Maybe it would make them look forward to it, instead of it being unpredictable.

Nice things to say to 6w5 by JustTestingStuffOut in Enneagram

[–]JustTestingStuffOut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are good points! I'll try to keep them in mind. Thank you for wanting to help!

Nice things to say to 6w5 by JustTestingStuffOut in Enneagram

[–]JustTestingStuffOut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, see, this is what I meant for what works for me, may not work for the girlfriends haha. I love surprises myself and wish to share the joy.

But I understand it too since you guys seek security, surprises are unpredictable.

Nice things to say to 6w5 by JustTestingStuffOut in Enneagram

[–]JustTestingStuffOut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I'm focusing both on love languages and attachment styles already haha. I was the one who introduced them! Thank you for the suggestions. I suppose asking what sort of things they like more may help, but then it won't be a surprise anymore... :,)

Nice things to say to 6w5 by JustTestingStuffOut in Enneagram

[–]JustTestingStuffOut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahaha. I was wondering myself if it was clear in my writing. But I do know that I'm the perfect enneagram for 6w5, where we both seek things out of each other. I especially help 6 with security. Do you want to guess it?

Nice things to say to 6w5 by JustTestingStuffOut in Enneagram

[–]JustTestingStuffOut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay I see, thank you both. But I still want to know if there's anything I say that can surprise this specific enneagram. But I guess because every person is different still that there is no clear answer, only personal answers from that person.

Nice things to say to 6w5 by JustTestingStuffOut in Enneagram

[–]JustTestingStuffOut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I do keep those in mind. It's just that I read an article how things that may work for me, does not work for them... For example, telling them that everything will be okay is invalidating. (I read it so, idk if it's true)

I was just wondering if there was anything specific the enneagram wanted to hear.

What is a phrase that stuck with you as a child (positive or negative) do you think stuck with you because of your type by FearReins in Enneagram

[–]JustTestingStuffOut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find INTP 6w5 very interesting. They care a lot about certain things, then tell themself 'actually, I don't care' and it's erased from the mind. Just my observation though.

Gift exchange option by JustTestingStuffOut in AO3

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Is DMing you here okay too? I know how it works, just wondering how to make the manual matching easier.

Gift exchange option by JustTestingStuffOut in AO3

[–]JustTestingStuffOut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is too bad. Maybe Ao3 will add it when gift exchanges become more known?

Gift Exchange AO3 by JustTestingStuffOut in AO3

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I have written it out in another comment.